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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it worth carrying on? I can't bear the thought of life without him again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

- Dear all, I'm hoping for some geniune logical advice to this problem. I wrote some time ago now, of my relationship with a man, now of 3 years plus, whose wife was a friend of mine, and sadly died 4 years ago. Me and him became friends, both very lonely at the time and the rela... (347 words)

We seemed to get along great but now she's almost ignoring me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I hope anyone can help me as I'm very upset over this problem I have.... I have recently met this girl who I like more than words can describe, we have been talking for 3 weeks now and met once so far, she lives about half hour from me and we met on the net we are so al... (205 words)

Help me! I'm an extrovert stuck inside an introvert!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Help me! I'm an extrovert stuck inside an introvert! On the surface to new people who meet me, I must come across as extremely rude, always with a face of thunder and not talkative, I look that way but don't necessarily feel that way, but I'm never bubbly or a good socialite ... (188 words)

I'm jealous of his ex girlfriend. How do I get over her and the time they spent together? How can I feel like I don't have to compare myself with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 26 and I'm jealous of his ex girlfriend. They met in college and dated for 3 years! He even proposed to her before she moved away! They never set a date and he didn't give her a ring... He has been broken up with her for over a year but they stayed ... (265 words)

I think I'm sexually attracted to my best friend's wife!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I'm sexually attracted to my best friend's wife I've known them both since we all were in high school, and I never thought of her like that until about a year ago. Since we all are close friends, I will not act on those impulses... none the less, I'm constantly havin... (74 words)

Why is it such a turn on to watch my wife having sex with another man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age - why is it such a turn on to watch my wife haveing sex with another man... (16 words)

Could these stupid thoughts be part of any pregancy horomones or period horomones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half months maybe a little longer, we're really madly in love, to me he's perfect, everything I want in a guy, I want to spend my life with him but just recently I had these thoughts telling me I don't love him and it really hurts me... (205 words)

His close galpal makes me angry and jealous..how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years who I am extremely happy with has a close friend who is a girl who "all the guys love" I'm jealous of her and dislike her @ the same time but he doesn't know it..what do i do? everytime she is brought up i am angered.... (53 words)

What are your thoughts on a 15 year age gap online relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Anyone can tell me their opinion about a 15 yr old age difference relationship i.e 17, 32 (older male) views from the male side are appreciated (even female), and what if the meeting was from internet that started as a joke and then became a serious relationship. feel free to ... (64 words)

What can I do to hint to him that I like him without saying it, outright?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this boy who lives across the road from me. However, he has a girlfriend. On one occasion he told me that he liked me, but, as I was worked up about a personal family matter, I think i said probably said no, although i can't really remember because i was really ... (182 words)

She dumped me! Should I ask her for an explanation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - After a Two and a half month relationship with my girlfriend she has dumped me by text, no explanation either just You're dumped in capital letters and no calls and I can't get hold of her it happened last night and we were going fine then this happens I really need some help ... (87 words)

I wrote him an email and he hasn't answered yet..does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I wrote an email to a guy I like asking him to the park a few days ago and he hasn't answered yet. Does this mean he doesn't like me anymore?... (31 words)

Is big best, if so why?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - hi i am a male and not well endowed is big best if so why ... (15 words)

Should I wait to find out if he feels the same as me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6091 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am friends with this guy and I have been for a while but some say he likes me as more than a friend. I keep going on and off him because of circumstances but I don't want to make a move inc ase I jeopardise what we already have. Should I just go with my instinct or wait to ... (69 words)

She had unprotected sex but he didn't ejaculate. Could she be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid. This time it's not about ME. Today i got a call from a friend saying she had unprotected sex last night (first time). She isn't too worried about becoming pregnant as she thinks the guy she was with didn't come in or near her. Could she still become pregnant?? ... (74 words)

Why is my ex bf calling me and talking about these other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

- Hoping someone can help me figure this out. My boyfriend ended the relationship bacause he met someone else. I felt bad but have moved on, I think. We split a couple of months ago. He called me out of the blue a week ago...just to chat. I was suprised but heard him out. He kept ... (170 words)

I'm getting married and feel guilty about thinking about the guy I saw a few years ago.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a bloke 4 years ago for about a month, I hadnt told anyone and just kept it quiet. I really liked him but got scared and called it all off. I now realise that it was because Ive never met anyone so nice and was scared that if i let him too close I would get hurt ... (200 words)

The guy I'm seeing had to move away and now he's having doubts about us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - After 6 months together, my boyfriend had to take a job 1000 miles away. From the beginning he said he wanted to stay together, exclusive, and after I'm done with grad school he hoped I'd move out there with him. Slowly I let myself become vulnerable and realize yes, this is ... (335 words)

He wakes up and reads porn like it's the newspaper and masterbates...what can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend gets up in the mornings before me sometimes i do wake up to find him reading porn stories like its the sunday paper and masterbating i dont want to but i get mad because i would rather him come wake me so that i can please him i need to know if i am alone or maybe ... (71 words)

He's straight and I'm in love with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6090 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey:-) Theres a straight guy Im in love with -Im certain- but i dont know if he is straight? And its like he's interested, sometimes but its like he is scared of people and what they might think of him. I really love this guy and I think we will land up together. I just dont ... (87 words)

I almost kissed someone else, do I tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in love with my current girlfriend and we have been together for a little over a year, i went out with some friends and got really drunk, i ended up dancing with this girl, normal flirting, and at the end of the night i almost kissed her, she told me that she wanted to ... (177 words)

Why am I feeling like I'm losing interest already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have this friend and we've been friends for over a year now. Well the whole time I've known him, he's had a girlfriend. A few weeks ago, he dumped her and asked me to go out with him. I accepted and we have been together since the 7th. Now, everytime he tells me he ... (157 words)

How can I learn to like giving blow jobs and how can I develop a healthy libido again?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and I have been married for a little more than a year. We have a baby boy who is almost one years old. I got pregnant the first time I had sex and I think that maybe that really damaged my libido. It's really hard for me to get in the mood. My husband always w... (151 words)

I've fallen for one of my staff but she says she can't see us as anything more than work colleagues...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've fallen for one of my staff. We've known each other 3 years for the vast majority of which I've been her boss (we met through me appointing her for the job). She knows that she isn't my normal type, when I first suggested the idea of us dating she thought I was joking. ... (169 words)

Why did he leave me after all we've been through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with this guy for six years and some months and 2 days ago he told me he didn't want me. We have been though a lot... I even cheated on him and got pregnant and he was still there for the baby and I and now he is leaving me for stupid reasons... What's up? Give your ... (76 words)

I'm 19 and I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend. We have done it before and she liked it but now she won't. It is my favorite by far and I really really like doing it. Like 1 or 2 times a month would be great but she just says I'm sorry. I always do all the work during ... (75 words)

No matter what - I try I can't seem to ejaculate in his arse.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year old male who's in my first gay relationship. We've been together about a year now and are having a fantastic time together. However, I have one problem. Normally I take when it comes to sex, but recently my boyfriend has asked me to give for a change, which I ... (176 words)

What can I do to convince him to get a divorce?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - He's still married and we are expecting our first child. I'm 18 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We've known each other for 5 years. We met our first day of High School when I moved to FL. We dated a little back then but it wasn't ... (361 words)

I don't want to fancy him if he doesn't fancy me, he blows hot and cold so I don't know what to believe...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused about this lad I know from work, so I thought I would ask everyone here for some advice. About 4 weeks ago I started working at this place, and my sister has worked there for 5 years so I knew a few people and always had someone to talk to but where I work, mo... (333 words)

I still love him and I'm pretty sure he still loves me but I have this feeling and he has brought it up before too that maybe we should break up because of this. I can't imagine my life without him but in a way I think I'm ready for it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and we have lived together the entire time we have been dating, I would consider this a serious reltionship. He is 26 and I am 21 so he is at an age where he is ready to settle down, have kids, get married and I am nowhere near ... (185 words)

I could re-located but I am concerned whether it is really ME that he wants - or if he just needs some arms around him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has moved about 250 miles away and he had been planning a relocation for years before meeting me. He wants me to be with him and says how much he loves me but I feel some things he has said are odd. When I asked him early on in the relationship he said that "his ... (357 words)

Should I contact my brother after all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. This is a family member problem not a relationship one. I have two brothers who are 4 and 5 years older than me. I don't get on with the elder one. He's very much like how my father used to be when he was younger and still kinda is today: he's always right, domineering, ... (464 words)

What would be the definition of being addicted to porn websites?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What would be the definition of being addicted to porn websites? For instance, when a guy looks at porn once every night, does that mean he is addicted? Or if a guy looks at it every other night does that mean he is addicted? I just don't know how much a guy should look at porn ... (69 words)

He wants me to tell him my fantasies but I have no idea where to start or what to say!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My boyfriend and I have a slightly skewed kind of relationship; in that we can talk and share our secrets quite easily with each other and we both enjoy sex with each other, but that's kind of the only intimacy existing here. I'm 21 and this is my first long-term, do ... (880 words)

Recently we have just ended the relationship and I've recently found out I'm pregnant. I don't know how to tell my family as I've only just turned 16.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was going out with this lad for a year. Recently we have just ended the relationship and I've recently found out I'm pregnant. I don't know how to tell my family as I've only just turned 16. He also takes cocaine so I don't know whether or not the baby will be okay. But last ... (109 words)

I live in NYC and he is in Philly and that sometimes when we see each other he just isn't as excited anymore that I'm coming to visit. How do I get my relationship back on track and get that spark back into our lives.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6085 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and recently he has told me that he loves me and wants to make the relationship work but doesn't feel the same passion that he used to. I live in NYC and he is in Philly and that sometimes when we see each other he just isn't as ... (82 words)

I checked her phone and found explicit sexual texts from a couple of guys, one who I had met in my/our home.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age - I'm a 55 year old man and I've been in a relationship with a woman 25 years younger for the last 10 years we live together and have an 11 month old boy. Recently her behaviour was particularly guarded towards her mobile phone, constant buzzing of messages being received and ... (193 words)

Will I be with her long term? One of my mates told me it's just good "experience" and builds "character".

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in school in England and have this great girlfriend that I love loads... It's just I was thinking is there any point in our relationship? A couple years from now if we haven't broken up we'll probably be going to different uni's or something, and I'll have to break up with ... (156 words)

I've practically begged him back and he says he doesn't know what he wants anymore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (?) - Hello, I'm so down and don't know what to do. I have never handled breakups well but recently my boyfriend of a year and a half finished with me and told me he didn't want to work at 'us' anymore because we just argued too much. It's true we did argue, but I always felt ... (368 words)

Do you think my wife's past is correct?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I are open and honest about our past, however talking about our first time she said she was fingered for 3 or 4 years by an older boy but never had intercourse with him. Although this does not really matter could this be true or is she not completly honest. She ... (65 words)

If he loves me why is he cheating on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I love my first boyfriend very much but I don't know if he loves me that much, because he cheats on me which I've not got him red-handed but have been informed. Any time I confront him on this issue he denies. I tried breaking up with him but he will not let ... (161 words)

My ex has been telling my friend he really misses me. Thing is, I feel I've moved on, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - long story short: With my ex for well over a year, we argued a lot, split a lot. A couple of weeks ago he ended it for good, and I thought it was really over this time (as it has been for over 2 weeks) then today my friend shows me messages he's sent her today... he really m... (168 words)

I received a text from my girlfriend to say "you're dumped", no explanation, nothing, she won't answer my calls. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I had been with my girlfriend for exactly two months OK things have been a bit rocky from time to time due to her mental health problems that she assured me she was over the worst of them at the begining of the relationship and in that time she has been very quiet with me. I ... (169 words)

What can I chat to her about to get her to like me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am madly in love with this girl and she is going to be 16 in August and I'm just turning 14, so I've already had advice from this site but now Ii don't know what to do! I speak to her on MSN and I have added one of her really tite (male) friends who knows I'm in love with ... (124 words)

Is there something going on between his co-worker and him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I think that my bf has something going on at work with his co-worker whom just recently started there. Within 1 month, he knows so much about her already. Also, he's been getting in earlier to work and stays a bit longer than usual. And, when I ask him to get home ... (163 words)

Am I being a little too paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently moved out from my girlfriend of 2 years. we were very much in love, but within a month she had invited two other men over for coffee she had met online on seperate occasions. then we started speaking again and decided to give our relationship another go. She swears ... (89 words)

I am 16 years old and I love my 35 year old teacher...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old, I love my 35 year old teacher, he has had a wife and 3 children. We often send messages to each other. I am willing to be his second wife. What should I do to make him propose me?... (46 words)

Do I go back to my husband who I still have feelings for or continue with this other man I've met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have seperated from my husband and met someone else who I fell in love with. My husband and I are now getting on well and he still loves me, I do have feelings for him but also this other man. I have two children with my husband, what should I do? and how do I know exactly ... (61 words)

Will she be an unfaithful girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering if my girlfriend is the type of girl to cheat... she is always telling me about her old boyfriends and how many she has had, and they're ALWAYS calling her and msging her on myspace and whatnot. She also tells me about how a lot of guys try to get with her, whi... (108 words)

I have a problem with the "lower area". Do you think she'll be freaked out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright I'm wondering if this is enough to weird a girl out.. and it willsound a bit gross, but w/e. so here goes... I had a whitehead on the base of my penis, in other words, its basically a white bump, its not massive, but is definatley noticable, hich worries me because ... (122 words)

Need some advice on how to give oral sex to a woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I go down on a girl well? I recently started dating a girl and I want to go down on her, but I've never tried it before and am afraid i'll do horribly. I hear there's a technique to it, so some advice would be helpful, thanks.... (49 words)

I decided I go 'scold' my ex in revenge. But not knowingly, I realised, I've been talking to his mother and she now wants me to see her on Friday and she will go see the principal about this matter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, this is kinda following up from my last question. I told that classmate whom I like how I feel. But in return I got rejected but managed to still remain friends. However, I'm not really convinced. Sometimes, I do feel that he looks at me. Or something. But dare not turn ... (192 words)

What are the chances of seeing her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

- I was filling my car up with petrol yesterday and as i was walking in the shop to pay for it this girl/woman was coming out. As i was approaching i noticed she looked like an angel, she looked absolutely beautiful, everything that i would choose in a woman. She held the door ... (130 words)

Will my spiderveins scare her off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so i recently started dating a girl, and although she's realy nice i have to admit she is shallow too. which is worrying me because she wants me to go swimming with her, and i have a bit of a stomach(i'm not fat, but i do have a little bit of a gut+love... (151 words)

Do guys prefer innocent or not so innocent girls?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

- I'm wondering do guys prefer innocent looking girls or girls who dont look so innocent? It seems to me that guys only like girls who dont look innocent. I myself look really innocent and this annoys me because guys seem to not go for me, they go for a lot of my friends who a... (118 words)

He is only a child but I am nearly an adult. What do I do??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, almost 18. My problem is that I have fallen in love with a guy who is 15 (who will turn 16 two months after I turn 18.) I feel really bad about the age gap but he said he doesnt care what age I am because he loves me too much. I know that he is... (85 words)

I just don't feel my boyfriend loves me, but he keeps on saying it over and over but I don't know if I believe him...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just don't feel my boyfriend loves me, but he keeps on saying it over and over, but simple things he does makes me think and wonder does he really loves me. I've been hurt very bad with my previous boyfriend but I still thinks about him each and every day but I will never ... (155 words)

Has my fiance cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Has my fiance cheated? My partner works away a lot and I recently found out that while he was away he went to a strip club and didn't tell me. When I found out he denied it at first but then admitted to me that he did go and all of a sudden came out with the comment I swear on ... (191 words)

Why does she lie to me constantly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6093 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm going out with this wonderful lady I really love her and she loves me too but she lies a lot and that is my problem She once told me she borrowed money from her friend but one time I had a chat with the friend and I got told no, she did not take any money off this lady, w... (142 words)

I have been in a relationship for 7 years now with a married man with wife and three kids.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, hope all of you are doing well with god's blessings upon us every day. My question is I have been in a relationship for 7 years now with a married man with wife and three kids. I am a moslem am not growing younger, he is a roman catholic plus his wife. Is there a... (144 words)

I want to know if this was true love or should I close the door and never look back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My first true love in high school graduated and left to the Army for four years. After years passed I was told by his friends he was living with someone over seas so I started dating. It broke his heart when he returned. I was so ashamed that I never looked at him or said sorry ... (255 words)

Now I have now had a "friend with benefits" before and am curious what the rules are, and is this totally inappropriate being that we're not in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I find myself in a situation new to me, a few nights ago I was watching a movie with a female friend, halfway through the movie she mentioned that she finds it funny how guys hate to perform oral sex, but are angry when a female refuses to do it. I argued by telling her that I ... (175 words)

Is there anyone that can help me come to grips with the fact that I am in a meaningless relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there anyone that can help me come to grips with the fact that I am in a meaningless relationship? There is no affection or closeness. The son of a bitch wants to pull me around like a dog on a leash and I want to do my own thing. Because love blinded me at the beginning, I ... (336 words)

My boyfriend tends to flirt with other girls every now and again. He doesn't have a wandering eye at all, he just says sweet stuff to other girls.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey My boyfriend tends to flirt with other girls every now and again. He doesn't have a wandering eye at all, he just says sweet stuff to other girls. And what he says seems very very harmless to me, but I want the opinion of guys to see if there are others who do the same ... (289 words)

I have a HUGE crush on this guy, could it be possible he feels the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Lets say, you have this HUGE HUGE I mean HUGE crush on a guy. And you feel that it is reciprocated through gestures and actions (i.e smiles, tone conversations, etc). (I'm 17) Can it be possible that he feels the same way, or would he just be responding to what you are ex... (207 words)

Am I too late to still have a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. A guy from my summer job got my phone number and started acting like he was interested in me. He told me he wanted to hang out and eventually even told me I was the coolest girl he'd ever met and that he was so caught up on me. We connected on an intimate level I ... (173 words)

My husband is the best husband in the world. I want for nothing. However, I have allowed myself to fall in love with a co-worker.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been happily married for almost 17 years. My husband is the best husband in the world. I want for nothing. However, I have allowed myself to fall in love with a co-worker. I feel terrible, but I can't help how I feel. We have been having an affair for five months. I ... (149 words)

Does anyone have any ideas where to find good guys? And how can I date one safely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I would really like to date and hang out with different guys and get to know different people, but I can't seem to find a good guy. A lot of guys I attract are much older than me and it would make me uncomfortable to date someone almost the same age as my dad. I am only 22. ... (119 words)

I sometimes get shy and can't look a guy in the face for a long time without looking away because I feel like he would judge me or something.

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl going into 8th grade and I was just wondering if it was normal that I get shy if I have to be around a lot of hot boys at once without my friends around? I sometimes get shy and can't look a guy in the face for a long time without looking away ... (99 words)

I just can't find the courage to tell her that I really love her, more than anyone or anything and I don't want us being good friends to be ruined by us possibly dating.

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have this friend, who is a girl, who I am very close with. We have been good friends for a while, and even dated at one point. Only problem is, she is going out with one of my friends. I am really close with her and we talk a lot, but I just can't find the courage to ... (104 words)

Does anyone have any tips to get rid of shyness?

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi... I am a 17 year old guy, I am extremely shy... I get very nervous (clammy hands, starting to sweat) when I start talking to girls... There's thoughts in my mind like "I'm gonna mess up" or "What if she doesn't like me?" Are there any tips to get rid of this shyness?... (55 words)

I know this might sound very stupid and juvenile but how do youu give a lap dance?

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this might sound very stupid and juvenile but how do youu give a lap dance? I understand everything else but how do you give a great lap dance, where do you even start?... (36 words)

I would like to know the difference between someone telling me, "I Love You," and someone telling me, "I am in Love with You."

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22 August 2007 (F)

age - I would like to know the difference between someone telling me, "I Love You," and someone telling me, "I am in Love with You."... (24 words)

I am 18 and he is 23, what can I do in the bedroom to make him want me as much as I want him?

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and he only wants sex about twice a week where I want it about 3-4 time a week. I am 18 and he is 23, what can I do in the bedroom to make him want me as much as I want him?... (53 words)

Does love fade away that easy or is it even true love?

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I know that she still love me? Well it all started at church school. When I first noticed her[she 13 and I'm 14].. so one month passed and I ask her out. She said yes.. and so it's been 2 months already.. we done a lot of things together, played tennis.. hang out.. talk ... (376 words)

The problem is that I have changed and I no longer want to be married.

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife since I was 17 years old. She is 18 years older than me and we have been married for the past 7 years. The problem is that I have changed and I no longer want to be married. I've made alot of promises that I can no longer keep. I love my wife deeply but ... (124 words)

I am looking for some advice on how to get my vagina a bit tighter during sex? I heard of kegel exercise but I'm not too familiar with that?

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, I am looking for some advice on how to get my vagina a bit tighter during sex? I heard of kegel exercise but I'm not too familiar with that?... (34 words)

Anybody got any ideas on how I can improve myself so girls don't use me?

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, basically, I don't know what to do with myself, the past few years I've used MSN as a way to get to know girls, girls that I went to school with etc, but I always seemed to be the guy they loved to talk to, but would always go out and get with some total idiot at a party, I ... (246 words)

What can I do for my 11th anniversary?

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I wonder if anyone has advice on what I can do for my eleventh anniversary, I know its not a big anniversary, but I kinda dropped the ball last year and it would help fix that if I did something pretty big this year. ... (44 words)

We used to make love every day but now he won't let me near him and I don't think I can cope any more.

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22 August 2007 (M)

age - I have been in a relationship for 15 years. To start with we made love without missing a single day for 7 years. Then things started to dwindle and we went 4 years without making love, but when I recently mentioned this he vehemently denied this and accused me of losing my ... (145 words)

I told a secret because I felt I had to, now my best friend hates me...

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so one of a really great friend of mine had her boyfriend dump her after she told him she might be pregnant, anyways it's really complicated in that area but what happened was my best friend had sex with the boyfriend and she told me. I had been helping the pregnant gir... (196 words)

I'm attracted to a 13 yr old girl! How do I stop this urge?

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is going to sound wierd and make me sound creepy and like a pedophile. I'M NOT!! I am attracted to a 13 year old girl. I am 17. How do I stop my urges toward a girl this age? I mean I have always dated younger girls but never one 4 years younger than me. HELP!!! How do ... (66 words)

He won't tell the ex-family to quit harassing him. He just says its better to ignore it all. It's impacting our relationship, and I want it to stop.

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We were friends several years before that. He was in an unhappy and sometimes violent marriage and they were always seperating and trying to work things out. His family hated her very much, she was very controlling and he had ... (443 words)

Is he only after me for my money?

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to seek advice regarding the current one that I'm with. My ex-boyfriend is asking for financial help yet I know he's just using me for monetary terms. He borrows but he never knew how to pay back, when we're still in the relationship, he does seek financial help ... (199 words)

We have a great sex life but that's about it! Is he just using me?

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating a 28 y/o guy and i m 33. He never hardly talks to me and i found all these text messages to other girls who he claims are just friends. But he has lied to me when he's made plans with one of them before. I broke up with him but he begged me back and i went. He told ... (122 words)

Ditch the boyfriend or my new love?

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - heres the deal i have a boyfriend lets call him computer-mad hes so sweet and handsom but he never want to spend any time with me so now im totally and utterly in love with ...abbs-and-bum he is strong manly and 16 i dont no why i like him but i geusse oppisite attract! i need ... (67 words)

No matter what I do I end up single!

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - so pretty much my life i think is at the low and i dont know if it can get any better i try so hard to be the best i can but nothing comes of it...all i want is to be happy and spend my days with a girl that i can treat like every girl dreams of being treated....but no matter ... (156 words)

I can't stop thinking about him, how do I get over him?

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get over this lad? I was dating this lad, after much persuasion from him, his friends and my friends. At first, I was reluctant 2 get involved because I'm often afraid of getting hurt and he did have a bit of a 'bad boy' reputation. I turned him down on numerous ... (262 words)

How do girl's masturbate without using toys?

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do girls masturbate? I mean without using "toys"?... (9 words)

Is a boy ejaculating and orgasming the same thing?

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if a boy have simply came, (ejaculated) or if he has orgasmed? Is it the same thing? ... (23 words)

He asked me if I 'came'. How do girl's 'come'??

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22 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were having cybersex and after we had finished he asked me whether i had comed. But i didn't know girls could come. Please help!... (28 words)

We're through! Is it possible to go back to being friends now?

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22 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I received a call from my girlfriend last night and our relationship as boyfriend - girlfriend is over. Do you think it is possible to go back to being just friends? There will also be occasions where we will be at the same event such as this coming Sunday. How do I handle ... (64 words)