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51-59,
anonymous
writes:HiIs it worth giving our relationship another chance? My partner and I split up last November but then got back together in the New Year. However, we split again mid-February which was my decision. He has kept texting me and desperately wants to give it another go but I really don't know if I can go back or if I want to.We were together for 4 years - lived separately and I have a son from a previous whilst he has two lads aswell. Looking at a longer term future, I'm not sure I could spend my life with him. We got together quite soon after my husband and I separated - he was a mutual friend of ours so we knew each other anyway. Since we split up, even though he has kept in touch with me, I haven't really missed him. I've got on with things - booked my holidays, applied for new jobs at work too and also got a bar job in a great pub circulating with more people. My feelings for him started to change last year - I'm not sure if I've enough feelings for him to start again - has anyone else been in the same situation? Can feelings etc be re-created? Thanks.
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reader, Natalie-Marie +, writes (7 August 2007):
 If you ask me you dont need this man at all, you seem just fine with out him. You have said in your question that you cant see yourself spending the rest of your life with this man, so why not just forget about him and move on, maybe by doing this you'll find the person who you can see yourself spending ther rest of your life with. Good Luck xXx
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