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Archived questions from: 11 April, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How can I rekindle the love we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Me and my ex have been broken up for ten months after a ten month relationship. He was finalizing his divorce and making sure that it was over with his ex. We are now talking again and i would like to get things back, he is leary. He is coming arou...

Are the people around me just forgetful? Or am I too brash and lacking empathy with people? I have a habit of putting people down when I reply to them if I think they've told me something before..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - I was in trouble yesterday with my husband. He told me my behaviour was too much. We have gatherings of my club, that basically is for Italians. I’m not Italian but speak the language. One guy there asked at least 5 times if I'm Italian. I ...

He calls me whore bitch slut. Blames me for his poor grades at college. Says he'll marry me if I change college to his. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - hey My Bf is 18 and we are in serious about our relationship....... We have ups and downs. We love each other..... Still virgins Now the problem is 1) He asked me to join in his college. Then I joined in another college of my parents’ choice...

Why would my friend say that we are better as friends, and later start coming on stronger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Why would a fella say to you that we are better as mates and then start coming on stronger when i told him that's ok we have been friends for years and few months back said we had feelings for each other and he was going to dump gf for me and then ...

Anxiety attacks. How can I get my Dad to understand that anxiety is a real condition?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - I suffer from high anxiety, and have for a while now. It is mostly related to the stress of college and academics. I also occasionally get panic attacks. I have suffered in my grades because of this, but I am doing my best. It's a process, and I'm...

Troubled relationship with my mother. She's always analysing every little word I say to see if I lie. How can I resolve this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4042 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I really need help, I don't know what's going on with me. I don't know why I feel this way or what's made me feel this way. But I really really dislike my mum, we have had so many ups and downs, we've been through everything together...

Low sex drive? How do I be a normal woman towards my husband and want sex like other women do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - I have been married for 3yrs now and with 2 children, but right from time I have been that kind of girl who doesn't usually get moved by sex. Right from my university days I have been so protective of myself and the fact of not getting used mad...

I know my self esteem is low. But his list of "RULES" is so long. What should I do about his verbal abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I know the post is long, please read it through and help me. I have been with this person for 3 years, I cook, clean after him, work and pay 3/4 of expenses at home, get him nice gifts for his birthdays and Christmas, never ask...

What's the gentlemanly thing to do about transport for a date, if we go out for drinks? Should I pick her up in a Taxi on the way to the venue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4042 days ago

11 April 2013 (M) - I have a date with a girl soon and we're going for drinks. I just dont know what to do and what is more "gentlemanly" regarding getting there and back. I wont be driving cause i'll be drinking and the place we are going is too far away to walk. ...

Guys, how generous are you about spending money on your girlfriend? Do guys tend to spend more on a Gf than girls spend on a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - How much money do you spend on your girlfriend generally? Girls, do you find that your boyfriend spends more money on you than you do on him? Excluding birthdays, christmas etc. It seems that traditionally the guys are meant to spend more mone...

22 years old and I really want a relationship. How do I avoid being seen as desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

11 April 2013 (M) - I've been looking for a relationship since I was 15 and after a first awkward date at 17, I simply stopped pursuing women with intentions of a relationship. I feel like I'm so inexperienced that no woman would want to be with me. All the women...

Is it possible for 34 year old man be interested in 26 year old woman? I am separated with 3 children.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Ok so I'm a 26 year old single mom of three young kids. I've been seperated from my husband for a year and a half, we need to save money for a divorce. Anyways i jus met a 34 year old man about 2 weeks ago but only been talking for a week. i me...

My life doesn't revolve around my relationship. So how can I get my New Love off my mind some of the time? I want to be with him ALL the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4042 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - I am in this relationship where we've been talking for at least a year and only actually "title status" for a few months. I held back my feelings because I was afraid of finding out whether he was a bad guy or not because he's been in my life for...

I was there for him when he faced a tough challenge. Now he does not want to know me. Do you guys think I am too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4041 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Hey aunts. My problem has to do with my best friend. We know each other for years and in the past 2 years we have been practically inseperable. We saw each other every day and when we didn't we were on the phone to each other. Last year, his pa...

How to stop fighting with my Bf? Or how to discuss things more amicably? Some of the mean things he says are hard to forget.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I fight all the time where we bring out the worst in each other. Is this healthy? I love him and we have really good times but sometimes some of the things he says to me are really hard to forget i don't want to go through this s...

How can I stop myself having inappropriate thoughts in the form of sexual fantasies about guys who are co-workers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - here deal i'm 25 never dated, slept with anyone. It part by choice and timing. I both studying, working kind lost interest in pub n night life after most of my mates got married and popping out new life into this world. I refuse to dsate/kiss/sl...

I give expensive gifts because I think it'll keep them interested in me for longer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, Background: I never really had a father -daughter relationship with my dad,we never were really close,but he would always give me the pocket money as a child and give me anything I would point on! Fast forward to now, This has b...

I feel like second best to boyfriends' ex-girlfriends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Okay, I don’t even know where to begin this. I am so confused. I basically feel like second best in my relationship with my boyfriend; he is 26 and I am 22 going on 23. I feel so stupid because I know most of you are going to think that I’m crazy. ...

I think my girlfriend lied about being a virgin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

11 April 2013 (M) - Well my girlfriend had said that she had almost had sex with someone I know before we were dating but the way she had told the story made me feel as though she was lying she said she was a virgin (as was I) when we first had sex but she didn't reac...