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Archived questions from: 9 August, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I fear he may leave me for someone younger, should I marry him anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I am with a man who is 17 years my senior. This has no so far been a problem for us but as the relationship gets more serious (we are going to get married next year) I keep thinking that he will leave me for a younger woman when I get a little ...

My boyfriend has a hard time opening up to me... how do I approach this subject with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - So I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months now. I like him and he seems to really like me but a few things concern me. He is very quiet and seems to have trouble opening up. I have tried to get him to open up but he doesn't say much. I ...

Deeply troubled with sexual past, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I am almost 20 and have slept with 7 different people. I find myself thinking about it each day more and more and its depressing me to the point that I cry about it for hours. I am so troubled with it and have so many different issues I just dont ...

I feel so stuck...why can't I just stop loving this guy? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Hi, sorry this is going to be a looong one. I have been with a guy off and on since I was sixteen. At first everything was great and my family life was horrible at home so the day I turned 18 I moved in with him. Then, I ended up pregnant. We were ...

She lied about her past lovers! Should I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - i have been married to my wife for 13 years i just found out that she lied too me about how many people that she had sex with prior too us getting married she told me that she just rembered about one more person about five years ago but just now ...

Help! We have a LD relationship, but her lack of contact is so hurtful! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Dear Readers, Thank you so much for reading this.. My girlfriend and I have been on a long distance relationship for over 2 years now. I met her when I was studying aboard in Japan, and after my term has ended at that school, I came back to t...

She lied to me and cheated! Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I’m a 34 year old blk male I’ve been with my girlfriend for about nine years I ask her to marry me about five years ago she said yes but she started cheating on me. for about a year and a half till I found out she said she would stop but she kept ...

Saw my friend kissing the girl I wanted to date! I feel betrayed..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - There's this girl that i really really like right and my mate said he'd help me with her because I'm quite shy when it comes to relationships. But all of a sudden, he doesn't want anything to do with it and told me shes seeing someone. Then I saw ...

She won't remove this guy off her MySpace!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Hey... my girlfriend had a guy message her that she said she talked to like "that" before we met. but once we met she stopped talking to him. he wrote her on myspace when she was at my house and said "hey whats good, i miss yu girl i want to see ...

My cop boyfriend is obsessed with me! How do I get out of this relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Complicated... I am in a relationship with a veteran police officer. This relationship sucks. We started off while he was married, (yes it was wrong) and he left her to be w/me. Problem is ..to me..he's obssessed. I am not sexually interest...

Committing to someone scares me! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I'm going to try to say this as best as i can, so bare with me. Okay, I'm currently single and i dislike it like mad, i really would just love to find a girl, some-one to hold ect ect ect. For awhile I didnt get why i couldnt, I'm not ugly, gir...

Help! My boyfriend thinks I am a flirt and as a result, keeps breaking it off with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I could really use some help, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really love him, more than anything. We only ever have one problem. He thinks that I am a flirt, but I'm not and I would never do anything to mess this up, he ...

How do I win back the trust of my former mistress? Will she take me back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I'm 40 years old and will be married for 12 years this month. Last year, I had an affair with my Exec Assistant, who is 8 years older than me and a truly sophisticated lady. It started as friendship, but then I lied to her and told her my marriage ...