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female
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41-50,
*rapQu33n
writes:I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls, CD, etc. He appears to have a serious t fetish. He claims to love me and wants to marry me. However, when I confront him with the obvious evidence, he denies everything. The wierd thing is he's been giving me hints, almost like he wants me to know the truth. The only way I can continue to be with him and not have him run away is to say, "I know that wasn't you, obviously someone hacked into your email."
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 December 2015):
 He wants OUT of the relationship but is NOT man enough to do it himself.
Be a strong woman and give him what he wants his walking papers.
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reader, Songwr1ter  +, writes (29 December 2015):
Talk to him, and tell him you know the truth. And if he lies to you again, then end things with him. Whatever you have with him, is not worth it. He's lying to you to your face, and hurting your feelings. That's not fair on you.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (29 December 2015):
 Are you feeling hurt because you can bet your bottom dollar that feeling is what you will be living with day in day out for as long as you are in denial and he not willing to come clean. He wont be running away if you are willing to permit his behaviour, you on the other hand should be running as fast and far away as possible. If you feel as though you are strong enough to stay, then love yourself to know that you are strong enougt to leave.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (29 December 2015):
 What can you do?
YOU can wake up and smell the coffee. Engaged or not, married or not, HE is a cheater and will probably keep cheating because he knows you won't leave (at least that is what he thinks).
WHY stay with a guy who is cheating on you?
You know a ring on the finger doesn't make a cheater stop, nor does living in denial.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (29 December 2015):
Sounds like he's an alpha. He'll do what he wants, and in your earlier years you'd probably take him back. At this age, hopefully you're a bit wiser.
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reader, Redbeaniehayes +, writes (29 December 2015):
If he's cheating on you, you should break it off with him. If he can't stay loyal to you than he isn't worth it. Save yourself more heartbreak.
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