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Is it jealousy the issue or is something else the reason my fiance cannot deal with this?

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Question - (30 December 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2015)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I met a guy and I seemed to like him and we decided to meet up and we had sex the first night.

After that he acted like he doesn't know me.

I contacted him a few times after that and he said I was expecting to be his wife and pushed him.

And I decided to keep it cool and decide to continue with my life and after that I met a guy and we was serious and we like each other.

One day the first texted me and said he wants to hangout.

I told him I was in a relationship and he got upset and said so many bad things.

He happened to be from the same city my boyfriend is and since it's a small city they know each other but it's not they are very close just say hi and bye because my boyfriend thinks he doesn't have respect for others.

After a few months I got engage to my boyfriend and the first guy above says some shit stuff to my boyfriend when he found him in a bar.

And since then my fiance gets upset the fact he said stupid stuff about me that I had sex with him and bla bla.

He is telling everyone that I had sex with him and my fiancey can't take it. Please help me and my fiance?

Is the ex jealous or there is something more to it?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015):

The ex is jealous because you moved on instead of being his fuck-toy on the side, waiting on him whenever he called. You already showed yourself to be an easy lay so he was expecting to have that option again whenever he pleased.

Your fiance is annoyed because he found out his fiance slept with an asshole she barely knew. Now the asshole is rubbing his nose in it. (This cuts DEEP into the self-respect of any man. And it may have cost him some respect among other guys they know.) I don't blame your fiance for feeling annoyed to be honest.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2015):

Denizen agony auntWhy don't you and your fiancée confront this nasty piece of work together. Meet up with him and tell him enough is enough. If he does not desist from making these malicious, salacious statement about you legal action will follow.

Clearly he is a piece of work.

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