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Archived questions from: 20 February, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Controlling ex has made it difficult for me to talk to people

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20 February 2012 (F) - I had a boyfriend who was really controlling and he stopped me from talking to anyone but him. Obviously i ended it with him, but now i'm finding it really hard to start conversations with people and i'm no where near as sociable as i used to be. I ...

Relationship gets worse - emotional girlfriend is never happy about what I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - Dear all, I am together with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and we moved together 6-7 months ago. She is in a medical doctoral program (class based) and I am in a Engineering doctoral program (research based) as well. School is very stressy for...

Why is he playing with me like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Why is this guy playing with me like this? is this some sort of a sick game? So there's this guy that I like. He'd stare all at me all the time. I gave him my number and he'd ring me and text me. But whenever we made plans to go on a date he'...

16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...

I'm always there for him but he doesn't want me as a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - HI I used like to this guy and I told him when I told him he never told me if he likes me or not. Then a month later he rings me up and tells me that he likes soem girl for a year and half, this girls feels the same but she not ready to move on. He ...

Our relationship is already trouble, how do I now tell him I had a miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I just had a misscarrage and me and my boyfriend have just been through a rough patch and the things are still a bit awkward how do I tell him?...

Why is this girl going around spreading horrible rumours about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Why is this girl going around spreading horrible rumours about me? When I was young.. I was 15 and she was 17 There was this guy that liked me but I didn't like him I liked his friend. He asked to hang out so I brought my cousin for him and I ...

My boyfriend has suddenly gone crazy over my male friend being at the party with me and now he is ignoring me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 and half years. And I love him more than words can say. He has the potential to be an amazing partner, friend, lover, etc. But, he has put me through a lot in a short amount of time. Everything from ...

Do I have a point about his flatmate or do I just need to grow up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hello, I know this sounds silly but I just cant help but to get annoyed with my boyfriends flat mate. He used to have a long term girlfriend and has broken up with her and since then its like he is trying to get my bf to go out with him all the...

How can I make him see how right we are for each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I have been seeing someone for the best part of 5 years, although it has been on-off for the last 2 years. Yes we sometimes argue and its obviously not going to be like the honeymoon period 24/7, but we have so much fun together and so much love ...

I want to give him this letter now I've told him my biggest secret, but he is being weird about it. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hi all. On Thursday I revealed my biggest secret to date- I was sexually abused by my cousin for 4 years. (23 years old now). I never open up about my feelings but I told this friend finally. It was extremely difficult and slightly harder because he ...

I feel taken for granted, trapped in my flat and frankly bored.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have always had an up and down relationship but great sex and alot of laughs for the first few years, he is probably the funniest person I know. Having been together for 10 years (bar a year and a half apart) I have always felt ...

Recent rocky relationship and now we have an ex back in the picture!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over 6 yrs, but for the past 12 mths it has been rocky, I have asked him to leave but he won't, he thinks.that we will get back to how we. were but I know we won't. I went out at the wkd and saw an ex, he told me ...

My G/f screamed at me publicly because I was looking at this gorgeous redhead on the train!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - Hi guys and girls im a bit of a chump - thats how i feel right now atleast... i made my girlfriend a beautiful silver necklace for valentines, took her away to a hotel/spa for the weekend, she absolutley loved it, as a treat for me she took m...

Why didnt my husband back me up and come with me to the police station to lodge a complaint against his ex affair partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Long story short, my husband had an affair with an aquaintance whom we barely knew for 3 months, she is a friend of a friend and lives with her fiance and their son, i have asked for advice previously but i couldnt find the link. I basically fo...

Girlfriend is becoming fearful about moving with me even though I've done everything to make her feel secure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - Hello everyone! My partner and I have been living in her house that she rents for nearly six months - unfortunately its going on the market so we have to move. However, fortunately I have my own home about 75m away so we're moving into that. It'll...

He was abusive and I need to move on. Tips please on how to move on and forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: no mention of charges laid against the OP so I am not calling this a crime. Instead I belive the Op was the victim from reading this account. I met this man in 1987... We have been in and out of love, or what I thought was love now I'm...

I love him madly. But he's starting to behave in ways that suggest I will get hurt. What are my options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4456 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: out of compassion text speak was corrected. However the level of Text Speak orginally was more than is usual. Please next time - less Text speak? Hi everyone. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 7 months now and I have known hi...

I want to get over my abusive LDR ex. But I need some ideas please on how to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I'm really sad and depressed. I was with this guy in a long distance thing for almost 2 years. It was never really perfect or ideal but I cared about this person a lot. We would fight. He would call me names but i in the back of my head I would t...

The new guy has made me question the last 7 years of my life. What do I do about my B/f now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - How can I leave? This is such a long story so I'll try give you short version. I want to start off by saying he is a good guy and with the right girl he could make her happy. We've been together for 14 years. I got pregnet with our...

I feel like I`m trying hard to be better but he`s still not interested in sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hopefully you all will understand the connection...I asked my boyfriend why we weren't being intimate with each other and he said I need to be nice to him so that he's happy when we are intimate. It was the first time I realized what an over ...

Am I being unfair or not? He wants all the attention but calls me selfish.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hi Aunt's.I'd like a little help here please. I have been seeing someone for about 5 years.we enjoy sex together but i have a problem with his selfishness in showing affection to me. He seems to think i should be doting on him all the time,while h...

My little sister is flirting with a guy I like. How do I deal with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4456 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Okay soo there this guy i school I hadnt really ever spoken to much before, but recently i started talking to him more because we have a class together this semester. He's a pretty cool guy, funny, really smart too. I also like the fact that he like...

He is so nice to me. But My friends talk him down. What do others make of this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i was broke up for 3 weeks i begged him to get back with me he said no he didn't want a relationship. Then i stopped talking to him ignored him and then he was the one who was wanting to be together again he said he loved me so much...

Can I leave home and be OK with my Girlfriend? I'm scared to do so, but I am sick of the fights at home.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Im only 17 years old and i believe that i am gay. It may be a phase but so far i really don't think it is. Recently my parents and I had a disagreement with it all and they make me feel like Im nothing when I know Im better then what they think i ...

His ideas about sex differ from mine. He gets huffy when I don't want to talk about it. How to I keep him interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Short and sweet I hope:: I talk to this guy pretty regularly. Daily mostly. If we can't talk in person we talk on line somehow. The bad thing is we dont agree on sex because I'd like to think love happens before sex in most cases around my age rang...

Why does she still put me down? I just can't seem to do anything right in this relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - i am 38 and i am in A relationship with A woman that just can't take my advice without thinking that I am trying to change her or be controlling. I am A decent man that has had issues with addiction in my past and have gone through great lengths to ...

He delays fixing things around the house. What can I do with him? Yet he freaks if I call a tradesman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I am so frustrated with my husband. It takes him forever to get around to fixing things around the house. It's not that he's not capable. It's not that he doesn't have the time or money. It's not that I push him to do things every week-end. ...

I know he doesn't love me but why is he treating me like that after all I been there for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4456 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My case is with a friend. He and I were co-workers, his girlfriend worked in the same place too. He liked to flirted with me and various people commented on that I never wanted to mess with him and do not pick quarrels with his girlfriend. He began ...

What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards everyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards their partners,children,family even friends as i know of a person just like this and i am finding it hard to understand how anyone can be like this towards anyone who has ...