A
female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why is this girl going around spreading horrible rumours about me?When I was young.. I was 15 and she was 17 There was this guy that liked me but I didn't like him I liked his friend. He asked to hang out so I brought my cousin for him and I got with his friend and he got with her.One time me and my cousin went to his house and he locked me in a room with him and left my cousin in the living room.He tried to get me to sleep with him but I didn't let anything happen. He lied and told my cousin he slept with me and my cousin started hating me since. We're in out 20's now and she's going around telling people I'm a slut.She talks to everyone but me and always makes me feel left out. She always copy my hairstyle and my clothes.I never slept with the guy, I was a virgin when I met my first bf so there's no way I'd had sex before. I don't sleep around. I've only had 2 guys in my life and a lot of people know I'm a decent girl.How do I stop her from hating me and telling people these horrible lies. She's not really my cousin my her dad is my father's long distance relation.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (20 February 2012):
 Talk to her face to face. She sounds like she is a insecure jealous person though, maybe ignoring her would be easier.
However, I am a BIG fan of confronting people who spread lies.
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