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writes:Hello everyone!My partner and I have been living in her house that she rents for nearly six months - unfortunately its going on the market so we have to move. However, fortunately I have my own home about 75m away so we're moving into that. It'll be an upheavale for her son (he's 11yo) but he'll be fine as he'll be starting his new school at the same time as all the other kids. Problem is she keep becoming tearful. Says that she swore that she would never move again. Also that her last relationship ended badly after she had moved in with him. I feel bad about being compared to some grunt from her past and also a little angry that she can't be more optimistic about the move - I have done EVERYTHING in my power to make her feel safe and secure and she knows I would never do anything to hurt her. she has a new job to go to there too some money isn't an issue. I just don't get it......is she hiding the fact that she is having second thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@blonde30s ....well that's alright by me - never been keen on blondes anyway! Fact is if you think like that then maybe you're the type to give a bloke a hard time too and expect the world to fall at your feel - sorry but not all of us fall for that silly little girl stuff - believe it or not, women have a responsibility to make a relation ship work too.....bless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy friend, I have to draw the line somewhere - I can't be a therapist AND a partner!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question...I have just been speaking with her. she says that she loves me, wants to marry me and have a child...etc....but she just feels overwhelmed at the move.
Its only 1.5 hours away from where we're living now and apart from ONE friend there's nobody here she knows. I just don't get it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am all talked out my friend! I have nothing new left to say to her!
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