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writes:Hopefully you all will understand the connection...I asked my boyfriend why we weren't being intimate with each other and he said I need to be nice to him so that he's happy when we are intimate. It was the first time I realized what an over protective girlfriend I'd been and how I hadn't been treating him very nicely. I've been trying very hard to change my ways and I thought I was doing a good job because the next time we got intimate, it was really wonderful and passionate. But it's been about a while since we've been intimate again and I just feel like I am still not making him happy. I talked to him and told him the things I've been working on and he said he loved it. (Like, only calling if I absolutely need to talk to him or not throwing a fit when he needs time to himself....It makes him feel independent again...) anyway. I just don't understand. I feel like I'm trying so hard to make him happy but he's still not interested in our sex life? What should I do?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 Ask him. Explain that you have made a big effort recently, he has even said he has noticed and he loves it - so why is your sex life still suffering?
There is nothing you can do apart from talk to it, he might think your sex life is fine so you need to make him aware that you are not happy and explain to him what you want to change.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, kaster  +, writes (20 February 2012):
he is not interested,i had the same problem with the guy but this time it was me who was not interested yet he was a nice guy.just find yo self out of this before u get more hurt.
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