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writes:HI I used like to this guy and I told him when I told him he never told me if he likes me or not. Then a month later he rings me up and tells me that he likes soem girl for a year and half, this girls feels the same but she not ready to move on. He been tellign em how much he likes her and how he started drinking because of her. He rings me every night saying he depressed. He also said to me it feels like I dont need a girlfriend when I have got her becuase I talk to her in the night and evrything. My point is that when I told my mate she goes the girlhe talks to every night is you. He also recently has been asking em for help/favours and I have been helping him. Does thsi mean anything?He ahs also said to me 'any guy who gets you will be a very lucky guy and that you are an absolute star' what does this all mean?Whenever I am with him he hardly talks I have to do the talking but on the phone he talks more and when were in a group of 3 or 4 then he talks more but when he just em he doesnt talk. What does this mean?Does he like me?
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reader, itcantjustbeme  +, writes (21 February 2012):
 You need to be an adult about this, if you can tell him how you feel, you can ask him the girl's name for one. If he fumbles with it, you got him. Ask about the girl in specifics (where they met, how he knows her, what shes into) to know if hes really talking about you. If not then you need to tell him that it's not fair to you to drag you through the mud of his love life while he knows well enough that you like him. If he disregards that then you should probably just trash him as a crush and a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012): "HI I used like to this guy and I told him when I told him he never told me if he likes me or not"Translation: he doesn't like you that way"He rings me every night saying he depressed"Translation: He is using you as an armchair psychologist to dump his problems on. This does not bring you closer, it just gets you used."He also recently has been asking em for help/favours and I have been helping him. Does thsi mean anything?"Translation: It means he is using you and doesn't plan on giving you anything in return"He ahs also said to me 'any guy who gets you will be a very lucky guy and that you are an absolute star' Translation: He never wants to be that guy who gets you but hopes the flattery will make you feel better about him using you and giving nothing in return "on the phone he talks more and when were in a group of 3 or 4 then he talks more but when he just em he doesnt talk"Translation: He doesn't want other people to know you talk all the time because it would make him look like the jerk he is for using you and giving you nothing in return."Does he like me?"NO. He likes the favours you give him and someone to dump his girl problems on.
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