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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:me and my girlfriend, yes we are lesbian couple shes alot older then me. she never sends loving or romantic texts and i do for her all the time but she never replies to them. the type of text she sends me are just about what shes been up to and ask me how i am, but never any cute romantic loving texts to say i love or miss you. she has said to my face she loves me but not much as i say it to her. what do i do? maybe i should hold back and not send so many loving type msgs anymore. been together a few months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011): thanks for all advice, cheers xx
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (2 May 2011):
 Some people are just not into showing their feelings and affections in texts or im messages or other inpersonal ways. She may just not be that type of person, and you cant force her to be any other way, if she says she loves you in person and shows you in her own way then really that should be enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Have you tried speaking to her about your situation? It could be a possibility that she is more of a face-to-face sort of girl, who prefers to keep the whole lovey-doviness to a minimum. It is difficult to know. I think it would be better to speak with her, then once you find out her reason or reasons... decide on what to do from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Have you tried speaking to her about your situation? It could be a possibility that she is more of a face-to-face sort of girl, who prefers to keep the whole lovey-doviness to a minimum. It is difficult to know. I think it would be better to speak with her, then once you find out her reason or reasons... decide on what to do from there.
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