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writes:Ok so iv been with my gf for almost a year now, she and I have grown up much faster then we have both had to, due to family problems when we were younger so we have a very mature and open relationship. However she has seemed to be a little distant or short with me lately and it's begging to worry me. She lives about forty mins away so I don't get to see her often, one weekday and we spend every weekend together. Iv tried talking to her about it but she keeps telling me "I have nothing to worry about". But I'm still worried. During the week our conversations have been shorter and shorter, and it's because she seems to want to get off the phone much quicker now then ever before. On the bright side, I will admit, she won't go to sleep at night untill we tell eachother good night and that we love each other. But I'm just not sure why there has been a distancing from her lately... Help!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): i have had this problem with my girlfriend a few times now. If its gets worse tell her that your noticing it, let her know how its making you feel and try to find out why its happening. If the lack of contact or distance is a problem have you thought of finding a place together?
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (11 May 2011):
 She might be just tired, or have something on her mind. Keep up the communications. Let her know that she can tell you anything, and that you are there for her. It is hard not worry though isn't it? I hope all goes well for you.
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