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writes:Where do i start, okay so a little over a year ago I made a huge mistake and thought I was pregnant. I told my old best friend (We'll call her C) after I found out I wasn't, she then accused me of lying about it. Of course we quit talking. Right after i found out I wasn't, I moved away and then "C" moved also right after I did. I have recently moved back to my old hometown and a girl who has been "C's" best friend for years (We'll call her B) knows about this incident and now that I'm back I'm terrified she is going to tell people or she already has. We were at the same party the other day and "B" was there. It was really awkward and i could sense the tension between us. "B", went into a room with one of my friends and I think she told her about my past screw up. Which makes me think other people might know. I don't know for sure if she did or not, it just worries me that my past mistakes might come out. I really don't know what to do here. All I want to do is forget about my past mistakes, but I'm the type of person who reminds myself of every mistake I have made. I need help on what to do about this. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2011): The past is the past and there's nothing you can do to change it so stop worrying. You made a mistake so what? Don't have anything to do with those people. If she was really your best friend she would've supported you and been happy for you not conceiving when you didn't plan. Just ignore those two and everyone else who tries to mess with you. Your mind is not meant to think about people like that. You've learned from your mistakes so move on and find new people to associate with.
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