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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 yrs. All of a sudden, we haven't been getting along at all. Seems the only time he's nice, is when he's drunk. Last week, I went out for drinks and a game of pool like I always do with a close guy friend, from out of town. I ended up cheating on my bf. I've never cheated on anyone before. My guy friend has tried hinting at things before, but I always and played dumb or just straight out told him no, because of my boyfriend. I always wondered why he kept trying. But now I wonder why have I started having feelings for him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Thanks for being so understanding. I know there's nothing right about me cheating. It bothers me so much that the only time he's happy with me is if he's drunk. And We do have a son together who is a year old. Which is scary to think about sometimes!
This other guy is like my best friend! I can always count on him.
I have tried so hard and often times just kept quiet if somethings wrong, just trying to make it work for my son.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Hi there!
This a sign you must end your relationship with your current BF. Given the risk alcohol can have in any relationship, Id say its not a good case here and warrants some attention and evaluation. Im sorry he's only nice to you when intoxicated this comes across as not genuine and very perhaps unstable to you. Right now, it may not be a huge deal. However, for ur long term I think this could be unhealthy and possibly toxic. Best to you.
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reader, Koolade +, writes (9 October 2010):
 First of all drinking just to get drunk causes huge long-term problems, especially if you want to start a family. When I was a child I grew up in an alcoholic family. I can tell you all of the psychological problems that it comes with. If he only can communicate with you when he's drunk then it's not a healthy relationship. You need to stick with your guy friend and have a few casual drinks at the bar and play pool and have fun. After that, just take it one step at a time.
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