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Hurt, confused, used

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Question - (8 October 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

my ex and i had some easy fix issues in our relationship that never got worked out because when I wanted to talk i was met with attitude. when we were at a dinner date the other day and with her knoledge i was fumbling through her new new phone I noticed a text conversation with another man that suggested that she was sleeping with him. i didnt say a thing to her after that because any questions i had in mind were just answered. I am so hurt i never thought it was truely over, because we were still doing things together and having sex too. she hasnt talked to me since then. i am not perfect by far and have my faults but i was always true to her and was never abussive even when she wasnt so nice to me. i wanted to keep this short thanks in advance for all input.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010):

thanks for the input it helps to know that Im not alone. I do love her but there is to much damage. i feel if it was so easy for my ex to move on she was disconected from me for a while. i never thught she was that kind of person but if amything it has given me a clear view of the person she really is

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A female reader, Lovehim4eva United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2010):

Hi well i know what ur going through i was having sex 4 days wiv my bf b4 he dumped me over stupid things that r mainly my fault. Ok so do u love her really love her no matter if she has done anything? I told my ex that if he did go with someone else id still love him and not leave him. I wish i could give more advice only im looking for advice myself, got faceboolk? Let me know take care

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A male reader, Manofathousendlies United States +, writes (9 October 2010):

Manofathousendlies agony auntIf she is doing this to you then it's time to move on. This is what she wants. Find someone else that will care and understand your feelings. So just leave the other whore alone and let her be. It's in the past.

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