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writes:Hello. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years and are very much in love. We are now expecting a child together and happy. I want to get married before the child come but he doesnt. It means alot to me and its all i think about. We are both in college. Today I left him and told him i can no longer be unhappy because we both want different things. Do you think hell come back? Reply to this Question
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reader, True +, writes (14 May 2010):
Well saying some thing like "i can no longer be unhappy" is something that could make a guy not even talk to you because he may be depressed or fear of akwardness, but if he was'nt willing to take responsibility then he's the worst but if he truly loves you he will come back but like how laetitia said to make sure you get the child support from him.
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 You're both really young to have a baby. Are you sure it is the right decision?
On the other hand, he may come back depending on his moral values.
If he doesn't make sure you get after him for child support! He needs to pay for the baby at least...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 I wish you that you may have him back ,if this is what you want, but, honestly, if really you both want different things, and cannot find an agreement, it would not make much sense for him to come back.
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reader, raiders +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Sorry I don't know a guy can't be pressure into marriage. In this time and day a guy will not marry just because he is going to have a baby.
If he comes back with the same mentality about marriage are you going to be able to accept him back?
You two need to sit down and discuss this because you two are going to bring a baby into this world, and its better if you two have a conversation and come to an agreement.
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