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writes:[Moderator's Note: OP's own title]I'm 13 he's 14. im VERY shy and he's just shy. we go to the same church and stuff. i liked him the first time i saw him (2 and 1/2 years ago) i dont talk to anyone in church much. mostly little kids and family. i hang out with little kids and he hangs out with the other teens along with my 16 year brother. i found out he got a girlfriend about a month ago so i tried to give up liking him because i thought the wait wasn't worth it. it was too hard and i can't stop looking at him in church or get him out of my head. he likes most of the thing i like and does most of the things that i do.well today i was in back of him (just a coincidence,really) and he kept looking back. i tried not to look at him because i was mad, sad, happy, nervous,and confused at the same time. then when my brother talks to me he always comes with him and looks at me. and when he's not already with him while im talking to my brother he comes out of nowhere and stands by him looking at me. he has plenty of friends at church and he usually follows my brother when im around. but sometimes just to hang out with him. i dont know if he still has a girlfriend though. i know i sound like a stalker but who wouldn't get curious after 2 years?there's another problem...there's a really mean cheerleader who pretends to be innocent but i know she's not. she used me to get into the group where the guy and my brother hang out at. she made fun of this guy for being bald and then realized he had cancer. i dont know if shes taken or not either. during the first half of when the guy first came, she told him she liked him. but he only said okay every time she said it or mentioned it.s he get everything she wants and doesnt have to work for it. she just asks. she talks to him, but only in church. he used to say hi and bye but he stopped one day. does he just feel bad for me because i like him so much or i seem too desperate to have him? i cry over him and he doesnt know it. were not even friends. we just know each other.i have never dated anyone before. there's a cute guy at my school but he doesnt even know me and yeahh.the guy at church is homeschooled though so he probably won't meet much girls(: by the way the girl is about 15. am i too into him? do i just give up? if so, how? does he like me? what's up? what do i do? i know im young, but my mom is okay with me dating,a s long as i tell her. please please please i want to know what he thinks and what to do. hes a hard worker, hot(: ,nice, and much much more.i really like him and im trying to stop but i can't.i looked on google and a lot of things on the internet on how to get over him but they just dont work.i will not EVER make a move.well please answer.the questions are in here somewhere and in bold like up there.(there's more than one,SORRY)ohh yeah,i dont see myself as hot,more as cute.but people rate me as 8-9/10 at school.its just what my school does,rate.some people say im hot,but most say cute.thanks i appreciate you reading this and wasting time on it.a great thanks if you answer because i know nothing on what to do.i dont know if this was too much information or too little,but thanks.My brother and mum wouldn't mind,I'm close to them and they know I can handle myself.I'm too scared to talk to him about this and my brother,so please,if you know anything i should do please say it.it'll be appreciated greatly!(: but it would be best if you didn't suggest going up to my brother or him or anyone for that matter and asking.one more question...if i cant handle myself from crushing on him,do you think he will ask me out if i wait long enough?(please answer at least one of my questions if you can.)THANK YOU.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): You need to find out first whether he is still dating the other girl. Have you a friend who could find out for you?
It doesn't sound like he is interested in that other girl, more that he was backing off from her.
You sound a bit confused between the one at school and the one at church. Try to decide who you would like.
Also, it would help most of all if you could do something to be less shy. Go on some self-help sites and see what they suggest.
Try not to get too carried away as this boy may be shy with all girls, not just you.
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