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My bf took me off his Top Friends list on Facebook!! Why would he do that?

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Question - (11 May 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, *rincess166 writes:

My boyfriend has a top friend list on his face book for 15 people and i was in it. Today for some reason he took me out of it! We see each other everyday and he is so loving and kind. And when i got home from his house i noticed he replaced me with his other male friends.

i msged him tonight after i saw it saying:

'aw i noticed you took me out of your top friends!"

and he replied. "oh you're such a wuss, i'll put you back in :)"

and i said 'nah its okay.. bros before hoes'

and he replied with 'you're funny. how was ur day etc"

and then i said 'haha actually put me back in the list or i'll be sad'.

i know i might be making a big deal out of nothing but why would he pick me out of everyone?

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A female reader, chicfrumdastix United States +, writes (11 May 2010):

chicfrumdastix agony auntif your biggest concern is what his facebook page says, u should really take a minute to RE-evaluate the relationship. That is not a big deal.. i promise u!

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A female reader, 333 United States +, writes (11 May 2010):

Relax, its not big deal.. Just a silly application. At least he didn't 'replace' you with another chick.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (11 May 2010):

Honeypie agony auntBecause it's a LIST OF FRIENDS! you are not a friend you are HIS girlfriend:)

Chill - it's only Facebook..

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (11 May 2010):

chigirl agony auntBecause he doesn't care as much about a silly application on facebook and thought "no biggie". Don't get offended over this.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 May 2010):

Facebook is the killer of relationships for this reason. It means nothing. Friends are friends. You're his girlfriend. That's higher. Maybe it depends on how much he contacts you through facebook and how much he contacts other people. I know a couple who don't have each other on their facebook page just so it keeps this kind of thing doesn't happen.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010):

i don't think he meant anything by it. You asked and he offered to out you back and said it was ok, if you want to be in the top list tell him I am sure he will be happy to put you there. Anyway you are a girlfriend not a 'friend'

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010):

You're making a big deal out of nothing. Why did he do it? Perhaps he wanted to see if you'd react, perhaps he moved few people but you only noticed your name missing, perhaps one of his freinds dared him to. In any case it's nothing and means nothing so relax.

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