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*ixieGwen
writes:I've been seein this guy for a couple of months.We talk/see each other daily.He recently turned a new leaf and is tryin to quit drinking, get a different job, a car and his family is visiting because his grandma is dying.A week ago we hung out and it was fantastic, we laughed a lot..were incredibly happy, hung out at my house, Normally we're happy but he usually drinks - so hes either mellow and sober or drunk and fiesty towards others and super loving towards me and we normally hang at his house ( he lives with his brother and they dont get along and he feels like it isnt his house).So after the great night we had together with minimal drinking.He wanted me to stay over and told me to promise id stay over the next time.Well all this stuff happened with his grandma/fam visiting/trying to get a car the next day.. so i havent seen him in a week because of his bad mood/all the crap going on.He said that family comes first and then business and said he wasnt trying to be an ass about it but he needs to take care of this stuff.I told him that id be here for him to chill, talk etc.He said for me not to worry and that i would hear from him (i made my worries known).The thing is.. i miss him.. i feel like telling him but i know he needs his space to take care of this.I just wish there was a lil space for me..but maybe thats me being a lil selfish? I know hes not seeing anyone else.. so i try not to think negative.is it normal for people to not balance and focus hardcore on work or family?.I just feel a lil shutout. when im going through a bad time in my life, or turning a new leaf -I get closer to friends/bf.telling him i miss him a bad idea?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 A person with a drinking problem is not able to balance anything.. Regardless of that, you have been only dating two months, he told you he needs space, and it's just a week that you don't see him. So,no, don't tell him anything yet.
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