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writes:So ive asked before. About the guy I love with the whole long distance relationship and the difficulties. So were not together because the "Distance" was killing our feelings. And deep down inside I couldnt handle it because I would have figured things should be getting better, and I felt like they werent. He blames me for getting mad, and he says I wont change . The way I get mad, and I get mad because he doesnt pick up his phone, cause im so adapted to him never missing most calls. I knew we were getting tired of the situation and we decided to take some time off because things just need to cool off. I respect the decision yet I feel miserable , deeply in agony when I think of the old times. What can I do to make this work? And how would I know if he still loves me? I dont want to be foolish, thank you.
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reader, Zanie +, writes (27 May 2010):
 Long distance relationships are hard. I won't do them. You can't see this person and there is that old saying, "Out of sight, out of mind." Not seeing each doesnt allow you any time to spend together, there is no intimacy in the relationship. It's damaging.
Is there a reason why no one has moved?
I can understand you getting upset about not speaking with him. You have no other interaction but to speak with him. However, if his calls are less and less...it leads me to believe you want to speak to him more than vice versa.
If he loved you, he would call you. Furthermore, you two would be together in the same city... you guys would have sacrificed to be together.
I don't think it is going to work out...
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