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writes:How are you supposed to react when the ex-wife is insane, constantly texting, calling, leaving nasty voicemails saying the kid needs something and how terrible of a person I am to their kid, when she agonised my son for ten years calling him names, spanking him to get out of bed, telling him that she wishes his mother was dead and how she would love to smack him in the face because he looks like me.... Now the tables have turned we are back together and she is constantly bashing me and making demands for my husband to call her and call her right now what to do?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes i am the first wife.... The whole point is is that she cant leave things alone. Her phone calls wont stop. No my husband didnt leave me for this crazy woman years ago we divorced. He ended up meeting her sometime after we divorced and she was crazy then dont guess he saw it til some time after they were married now she is worse. The night we got married she was burning his phone up she claims she is happy but continues with her BS. She uses the kid as a pawn constantly reminding him that she is his baby girl. We just had a baby 6 wks ago and the reminders from her are getting worse. My husband has gotten so defensive with the child with her like no one likes her and he assumes i hate it when she is here the fact of the matter is is that his actions change when she is here and it adds stress its like he has a chip on his shoulder and it is making people in the house not want to be around him or the child. No clue what to do....
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (1 December 2010):
 Honestly I would refuse to talk ot her at all. If she can not be civil, it's a hang up. And if she wants to talk, she can talk to your husband. HE will HAVE to deal with this, not hide behind you and let YOU take the whole "blame" for this.
Also, I would record every single threat/unpleasantness and if need be file a restraining order against her. She sounds sick.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 I am assuming you are the first wife and you are now back together with your ex... with his ex wife hassling you? If this is the case, it seems the ex wife hasn't got the closure she needs to move on or why else would she bother you and your husband/partner. She sounds very unpleasant and unreasonable and you need to speak to your partner about it. Some people never let go, so if she continues you could always threaten her with legal action if she doesn't back off.
Your partner needs to get to the bottom of what is bugging her...could just be jealousy but he needs to put his foot down and deal with it to establish some kind of peace.
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reader, Manya +, writes (1 December 2010):
I agree with Eyes - please give us more information about
what you mean "now we are back together" -and "the tables are turned." ?? It does sound like a terrible situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): Ok plse explain this to me I am very confused:
Your hb left u for another woman?
Your son was 'tortured' by his new wife?
Your hb came back to you and now the ex wife is makin your life hell?
Musical chairs anyone? Why all the drama?
LoveGirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): She sounds jealous. isn't there anyway you can remove her from your life completely? She sounds very crazy!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 December 2010):
 That's WERE you his first wife?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 December 2010):
Where you his first wife?
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