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writes:Any advice would be helpful please...I have been friends with a guy for about 3 years now. We get o n great and always have fun when were together.After we went for lunch yesterday we went back to his house. There was nobody home when we got there and I finally got the courage to tell him that I liked him. "P" told me that he felt the same but was just too scared to tell me we ended up kissing and that led to us going up to his room.I was always attractred to him and I'm happy that weve finally stopped being so stupid and got together.The problem is my friends dont like him and have never liked me being friends with him and they feel he is untrustworthy.How to get my friends to be happy for me and get them to get along with "P"..?I really want this to work out..Lovernotafighter...xxx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 October 2009):
Well, I'm afraid your friends aren't being too great about this. Were you going out with him at the time (I don't think you were)? If not, then you have to tell them that at the time, he was the only one being sensible in not taking sides. Just because he didn't take sides back then, doesn't mean that he's not a good guy. Tell them that. If they can't like him, then you'll have to respect that (that will be hard) and keep them separate. Hope it all works out.
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reader, Lovernotafighter +, writes (3 October 2009):
Lovernotafighter is verified as being by the original poster of the question They dont like him because of something he done in the past.My group of friends had an argument with another group and "P" said he didnt want to take sides with either group. I understood why he didnt want to get involved but my other friends said that they didnt want to talk to him anymore as they cudnt trust him to back us up.
I find it silly that they dont like him because of something as stupid as that but they dont...
How do I get them to let the past be the past..?
Lovernotafighter...xxx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 October 2009):
You need to sit down with them and ask them why they feel that way. Is there a reason they feel that way?
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (3 October 2009):
 Hi Lovernotafighter,You need to talk to your friends. Explain to them how you feel and if they were good friends they would at least put up with him. Though it does concern me that they all dislike him and find him untrustworthy, I hope you understand why and won't end up getting hurt by him. Good Luck!
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