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writes:I dont know what to think or do. I found in the history on our computer that my boyfriend (my daughters father) had gone on craigslist and looked up women 4 men personals. There were call girls, phone sex numbers, 'just visiting' ads. I dont know what to think. I mean I thought we were fine and didnt have any issues, but maybe I'm just blind. My self esteem has just taken a huge hit and I'm lost. I don't know if it was just looking to look or if he's really looking for something else. I dont want to confront him just yet because I dont want to cause a problem if there isnt one. Im not sure what to do.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
I think you need to ask him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Don't over react, unless you find these #'s on his cell phone bill. Craigs list has photos on many of the ads, and I've been known to surf for the SOLE reason of looking at the ads...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): It sounds like a lot more than mere curiosity on his part. This isn't passively looking at porn, it's looking for a real person to interact with. Since you have a child together, it's reasonable to expect a higher level of commitment from him. Tell him that you're upset and why, and that you find that kind of behaviour unacceptable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): Sorry if you find this a bit crude. I don't know why your hubby would visit those CL ads, but i like to masterbate while reading them. Why not ask him?
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