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Blast from the past

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Question - (7 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have encountered my ex on the fabulous FB. We have chatted back and forth and complimented each other on wall-to-wall.

This is a man that I have never forgotten about and always wondered what happened to him. We were married in our 20's and ... enough said, it did not work out. Here we are 12 years later finding one another. I am married with 4 kids. He just finalized his 3rd divorce (I was #2)..and he has 2 small children.

I want to see and talk to him, hear his voice. I have a jealous husband who does not think a woman married should be out or have a life outside of her family.

I am not talking about an affair, although not ruling it out. My husband would never give me a divorce, I am stuck in this marriage. I care for my huband but our sex life sucks. It always has, the penis size is the factor. He has great qualities and is a wonderful father, I would never want to hurt him or my children.

But I need this, I need to find out if I still have feelings for the ex. I just want to see him and catch up.

How do I deal with this?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

ex has 3 ex wives already and you are not ruling out an affair with him. you were wife # 2, surely you have learnt by now your ex is not the man for you - even in the sack.

i think if you sort out your bedroom problems you will have a better marriage. perhaps also do some of the work in the bedroom and help your hb in this department. a small penis is not a mood/sex killer. you just need to learn to use his tools properly. & also learn to mastubate as well. i wish you luck but plse let goof this ex fantasy. only heartache and pain in store here. is this what you want.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009):

Thank you for that. I needed to hear that.

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