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female
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anonymous
writes:I have a guy friend who told me he fancies me, but I didn't feel anything back because I was "in love" with a guy for a year who treated me awfully so I was blinded by this loserNow I'm seeing things more clearly.. although the guy friend who confessed he fancied me a year ago.. i don't seem to feel a spark but I think I deeply care for him as he was always there for me and texts asking how I am etc. people say hes a bit boring and I admit he kinda is set in his ways and doesnt drink but in a way that's a good thing. I'm just scared If i did kiss him then I would get bored and break his heart, :( but at the same time I do think I feel something for him.. it's just that I don't feel a MASSIVE spark when I look at him :( its so confusing lol! what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): Awe well I am very happy to read that you've found something special. Congrats for taking the chance.
Don't be scared of the future...it has not happened yet so why be scared of something that is unsure, when you are so sure of feeling something so great in the present.
Good Luck to you, all the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so we went on a date which didn't go too well (lol) didn't even get into cinema..yikesbut on our second proper kiss night I felt something I never felt before!! =) I'm still a bit scared of getting hurt..and losing him as a friend but I'm going to take it very slow as last night felt amazing :) thanks for the advice :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): I think love isn't always made from a spark. Sometimes it becomes true after dating someone and you grow fond of them. I don't think there is something wrong in just dating him for a while...maybe something happens then and you will feel it for him? I don't know but he does sound decent and many women look for decent guys and complain that they can not find any and in your case he is right in front of you. Not saying to make him yours but nothing is wrong in just dating.
If you have given yourself enough time since your breakup then date this guy and see if it works out. Good luck to you dear ^^
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