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writes:my girlfriend an i are in a long distance relationship. one minute she will b alrite with me then she wont be. she says evrything is fine with us. ive tried talking to her but she just evrythings fine. does she still like me or is she getting ready to finish??? or am i just over analysing the situation
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea cheers guys. I think im just lookin at this in the wrong way. i think ive figured out wats wrong. Cud it b that she misses me and finds it hard to contact me????? but i hope things go well. And thanks for all the advice. If you hav nemore though dnt b afraid to let me know... And yes we guys do need answers. Its horrible not knowin wats goin on
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): Omg mate I am going through the exact same thing! One minute she is lovy dovy, the next she is a totally different person! Mind you this is long distance we are talking about and "apparently" its a normal occurance in long distance relationships because of the ups and downs involved. I think you are over analysing the situation. As guitarist said, don't over contact her, let her do the contact and don't push her into any corners because it's long distance she will be all over the place with her emotions. Go with the flow, even if it seems really hard... because us guys we like to know what's going on and want answers instead of being left hanging! GOOD LUCK!P.S MY LDR IS 4 YEARS!!!
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reader, Guitarist  +, writes (13 February 2009):
 ok, how long you been seeing her?
i'll be honest everytime i thought there was something wrong shed tell me everything's fine but would break up with me shortly afterward. and the excuse i always got was 'I don't think i'm ready for a relationship' so be prepared mate. its just how girls are. i'm sure girls will reply to this about what i've just said but its the truth, girls do it ALL THE TIME.
so advice... leave her to it, let her contact you, let her miss you, whatever you do, don't chase after her and DON'T keep asking whats wrong. apart from that theres nothing you can do just yet. message me if you do what i said and if it works.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): You may be overanalyzing the situation. But I have learned that in all of my past relationships that whenever I had a bad feeling about something I was usually right. A long distance relationship is hard to handle for both parties involved! How far apart are you? Have you thought about trying to get to see her maybe as a suprise? It's possible that she is missing you and just needs some TLC but feels bad saying anything about it.
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