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writes:hi ive been having some problems with one of my male friends, im 24 and hes 34. we met early last year and have since become good mates, however recently he has told me that he is a virgin and thinks i am the girl he would like to have his first sexual experience with. to be honest i didnt know how to respond, i told him i was flattered etc, and then we just continued our friendship as normal. however he has mentioned this again a few times since, and seems quite frustrated as he keeps on saying he has to 'lose his virginity' before he turns 35, i made it clear that i just wanted us to remain friends and thats all i wanted, and since then he has been distant, moody with me, quite sarcastic whenever i try and have a conversation with him. i was very open with him, and we both agreed to be friends as we have in the previous months, so why is he behaving like this? was he only a friend because he wanted sex from me? so he could get 'rid' of his virginity? as it seems he no longer wants to be friends. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 He is like a small and immature boy. He thinks you should be proud that he has selected you to be his recipient for his priceless and virgin sperms.
Most probably he thought you were game for it .I don't know how you could tolerate such a friend?
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reader, Sams_WonderWoman  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 He could have feelings for you and you turned him down. That is the reason why he is acting that way towards you. I don't think that he was only going to use you for sex. Maybe he was saving himself for the right person. It is rare where I live for a guy of his age to be a virgin!! The ones who do, are waiting for the woman of their dreams.
If you have feelings for this man, talk to him. Maybe you might find out that he truly cares for you, and not using you for sex. You never will know until you find out. Keep us informed what happens, ok?
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