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writes:I was dating for 1month a man who is almost double my age. I really loved him and i think he does too. But the problem is a lot of women calls him and he try to answer them by saying he is with his GF. and i told him to ask them all not to call... i don't know if he did but they keep calling.Do u think he is dating this women(most of them prostitutes)? he said he never slept with them but he helps them financially... could that be true? pls help me what to do.
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reader, Sams_WonderWoman  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 I would be very cautious if I were you. I was in this situation with this one guy I used to be with. He also had lots of women calling him. He told me that they were just friends and never had sex with them. I found out later that he was lying to me and was actually sleeping with several!! I left him and found a wonderful man who is everything to me.
I would do some investigating to see if he is telling you the truth. I say if other women are calling your man all the time, it is usually not good!! I hope the best for you. Let us know what happens!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 No one every gives money away to a total stranger unless they have received something in return. Was her name also Charity? I suspect that he has told you a few little fibs in order to cover his tracks...
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 Did he actually tell you they were prostitutes, or are you just making an assumption? If they are indeed prostitutes, I can assure you he has used them for sex at one time or another. Most prostitutes are in the business to support their drug habit. If he did indeed cut off his "sexual transactions" with them, it's possible (thought a bit of a stretch in my mind) that he's giving them money because he feels sorry for them and can't stand being badgered, so he gives in to them when they call and at least sends them money for drugs. A strung out junkie can be pretty persistant when they're in need of a fix. But this really has to stop. I'm not entirely sure this is even what's going on but whatever it is, he needs to pull the plug. You might suggest he change his phone number. That should get rid of them rather quickly. And hopefully he's not mixed up in some kind of gambling ring, or prostitution ring where he actually gets a cut of their money. He could actually end up dead.
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