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writes:There's a boy that I started dating. We dated for over a year. In the process of us dating, I got attached. I want to know how I can get unattached, because he treats me like crap. I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore. There's another boy who I really like. I would rather be with him, because he treats me like an angel. He's always there for me. I really like him, but I jus cant seem to get over my ex. What should I do? Someone please help.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (23 January 2008):
 Talk with him about how you dislike his treatment and if he gets mad or tries to avoid the situation the say that you are done and leave him. But NEVER NEVER NEVER jump into a new relationship right away you will end up hurting yourself and others most likely.
He may come crawling back once things have sunk in a bit, dont take him back until you scare him a bit and make him realize your serious and mean what you said. And make him feel like you dont need him. He should stop then. If not move on.
I had to get unattached from someone, hurt and failed several times but once is succeded it was worth it a lot happier now.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): Have a chat with your bloke and explain to him that you deserve to be treat with respect. If he doesnt like it or take it on board then tell him that you are finished. But, dont just go straight out with the other guy, have some time on your own and build up your confidence and self esteem. But dont be treat like crap. If he does change and he treats you better, then the chat has worked, if not then walk.
take care
xx
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