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My boyfriend is trying to hook another girl up with his mate, but I don't like it and I'm feeling jealous.

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Question - (3 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i'm with my boyfriend for 7 mounth and we never had problem til now i know he loves me and i love him 2.

but i feel like his losing his love for me.and one day i got mad at him for talkin to other girls.and he say'i'm realy sory but this time i cross the line'he was talkin to other girl for few day but he stop now and his hooking her up with his friend and she sometime text me askin abou his friend..and i dont lik any of it.what should i do.i realy dot want loose him and i'm confused.

help

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (7 August 2008):

misfitschik66 agony aunt like i said before just talk to him about it and tell him it bothers him

if you want to get really nasty tell her to stop texting your man!!!

and if he defends her then he is obviously not for you and you can do better then a lieing cheater who sticks up for other girls when you want something that is bothering you to stop!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

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i did'nt make clear what i saying.

what i meant was that my boyfriend himself had temp to cheat on me with her,''and he said he was sorry after word'''she have crash on him sicne they wher in school together and now he said to me.he has no interest on her but his hooking her and his mate,,,but they still text and i dont understant why he is text her

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (4 August 2008):

misfitschik66 agony auntok if i understand correctly you are mad because your boyfriend is hooking this girl up with his friend??

well if that is what your saying then i don't understand what the big deal is?

it's not like he himself is hooking up with her and if this girl is texting you asking questions about this other guy then be happy she is not interested in your guy

sweetheart don't worry so much it sounds like to me like he is just trying to be a good person and hook a few good people up i highly doubt he has intentions of cheating on you if that is what you are implying =)

XoXo

p.s if your worried so much just have a chat with him saying this issue is bothering you a bit

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008):

have you tried to talk to him about this situation? i think it's normal to feel like a boy is loosing their love for you. i rekon it's because your love for them grows, so the fear of loosing them grows even more and you start to let yourself think that their loosing their love for you. it's also normal to feel jealous when you see the boy you like/love talk to another girl, but if he truely loves you, you should know that nothing will happen. is he a close friend of hers?

my advice would be to talk to your boyfriend about it all and assure yourself that nothing will happen.

i hope this has been some sort of help to you :)

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