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writes:I liked a man for 3 years and we never dare approach each other until 6 months ago, we then saw each other most days, now he says im the nicest girl he ever met, kind, caring and gorgeous but he cant get into it and no longer talks to me other than occasional emails saying i will find someone soon, he wont explain what he means, can anyone help me please? Reply to this Question
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reader, xsjrr  +, writes (21 August 2008):
I'm suffering the same situation with you.After he said same thing with your boyfriend, he now even doesn't contact me any more. no respond to my sms,email...I once expect he would come back to me as he said I am such a nice lady. Now I realilze if I keep contacting him only can make him get sick of me and lose the last good impression on him.So after I leave him a last sms :"....cowerd, look down on you.." I know I lost him forever and the last chance he proberly coming back is cut off by myself. Now I decided to move on, just thinking he is "dead". Why do we miss a man who is not worth and doesn't love you at all? Good Luck for both us, we can still have a happy life without ex.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 August 2008):
Well if he's watching you for 3 years then he probably built you up and put you on a pedistal in his mind. He made you impossibly perfect and now Shock Horror, he has discovered you are actually a normal human being who has likes and dislikes that aren't as perfect as he imagined.
He can't get into you because you can't live up to the perfect soul-mate and princess in his mind.
Move on and find someone new.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, D** +, writes (21 August 2008):
D** is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhello, thank you ever so much for the answer,
i have tried to not contact him and even went away for a month, but he contacts me just to say he likes me but that i will find someone when i have not even messaged him about it, i keep trying to forget about him but always makes sure i cant by doing this.
your answer was very helpful though and i will continue to try ignoring him :O)
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reader, xsjrr +, writes (21 August 2008):
I guess he want to leave you or does't love you any more, but don't want to hurt you, so saying nice things of you to make himself feel not that guilty.
if he wants to go, then let him go.to find a Mr right for yourself.
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