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36-40,
*otbabe_96
writes:Dear cupid...theres these girls at school that wont leave me alone...i was cool with them at the begging but some guy got in the way..ever since theyve began hating me there whole lil click has started hating on me...i fought both of the twins that are hating on me cause they started it...but they still wont back off...what should i do they wont quit... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):
Hi
IF you were in the wrong go and apologise and say you are sorry and ask them if they will be freinds.
If you did nothing wrong, ask ONE of them if they would HELP you with somthing....( BUT not fighting! ).this may make them feel special everyone likes to be asked for help, then this person might take you under their wing and look after you when the others want to have a go at you.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Is the age bracket that is displayed by your screen name accurate? I ask this because at 22-25, these types of situations are far more rare than if you were, say, in High school. Just know that fighting never solves anything, in most cases, it makes things worse. You were probably trying to defend yourself, I understand, but The best way to stop a nasty situation is to avoid it as much as possible. What about this guy has come between you and the girls? The answer to that queston would probably help me and the other aunts and unces to give you productive advice. Was he going out with one of them? A family member to one? Did you start to see him and he was friends with them?
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