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Archived questions from: 7 March, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He has a 13 year old daughter and I feel so jealous, I want him all to myself and don't want her near me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 591 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - Children as a big turn-off! My lover has got a 13 years old daughter from a previous marriage. I find it xtremely difficult to get used to the idea she is number 1 in his life. I feel very jealous and dont want anything to do with her. I am asking h...

What should I do here... stick with the boyfriend and ditch the lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - Trapped between 2 men Hello there I ve been with my bf for 5 years, last 3 of them we are living together. Last couple years i ve started feeling very unhappy, although its not really my partner's fault. I still love him very much, but its a differ...

We have decided to move in together and get married, now he's dropped a bombshell... he's £50,000 in debt!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - I have a wonderful boyfriend of 5 years. We are very much in love and have decided to move in together and get married. We both have good well paid jobs however he has dropped a bomb shell! He is £50,000 in debt and has hidden it from me till now. ...

How can I get him to spend more time with me and the kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - I have been married to my husband for nearly 12 years and we have been together since I was 14. We have 3 young children. He plays darts on a grand scale and it seems to be the one thing we always fall out about. He puts it before me and the kids ...

Is there a chance? How do I get his true love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - Hey. I have a problem. I'm 18. May be you would find it naive because I'm too yang and stuff, but I really need help here. Me and my (now ex) boyfriend (he's 21 now) dated for 10 month, we loved each other a lot and from the begining, as longer ...

I feel so submissive. I want more but where does that leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a two year old little girl. I think I love him but I don't care about our relationship anymore. For years I've begged for attention and ask him to respect how I feel about things and although ...

He is working later and later every night. Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is working later and later every night. i hardly get to see him at all even though we live together, people are saying that he is cheating, he used to work later when he was with his ex, she later found out he was cheating. i dont know ...

We will be together soon... I hope!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (M) - my girlfriend x now was seeing a man for 2 years then finished him and went out with me she always said that she thought she would have been single for a few months but instead went out with me we hit it off and it got so seriuse that we both said ...

I don't know what I've done to make her pull away from me... any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (M) - Dear All My apologies for my continued posting but I just can’t do without you guys, seriously! I feel that by posting I can just let out my feelings! My life has been crazy these last two weeks after two and a quarter years of knowing a girls...

He says his feelings towards me have changed but I would marry him in a heartbeat. Should I stick around and work on things or just go ahead and pull the plug now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - I moved in with my boyfriend about 5 months ago. He used to tell me that he wanted to be with just me and knew he would marry me one day. Since we moved in we have been arguing a lot more and he recently told me that he did not think he could marry ...

My gf drinks too much and treats me badly! Should I stay or leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (M) - My girlfriend drinks excessively and then treats me bad. In the year we have been dating she has thrown a plastic cup in my face, came to visit me and left for the whole day to party with her friends b/c she got pissed and then called me crying ...

Does she like me or does she not, it's driving my crazy!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (M) - I love this girl but I am not sure she loves me or even if she cares about me. She talks to me and she twists her hair when she does it, I heard that is a sign that a girl likes you. She sits by me and sometimes she stares at me and It is driving ...

I invited her and her husband over for dinner. She seems jealous of me..what is going on with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - I have a co-worker that w/time she has become my friend. A few months ago I finally met her husband. Before my gf used to invite me to her house all the time, now that her husband is off when we are off she want to meet me elsewhere. I invited her ...

My boss seems infatuated with me but he's married, should I go for it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been working at a restaurant for about six months and my boss has been flirting with me. To begin with i just thought that it was friendly flirting but last month he gave me a huge bouquet of flowers, everyone starting talking and since ...

He gave my clothes to a hooker! I am hurt and he thinks I am crazy to feel this way...help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - My longtime boyfriend of eight years has given clothing of mine to someone who I know is a hooker, drug user and possibly involved with my boyfriend. I feel totally betrayed and am emotionaly angry and hurt. My boyfriend thinks I'm crazy. Help?...

I feel so neglected by my partner, he seems to have time for everyone else but me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - which is the best way to get your man to give you more attention? im feeling really neglected by my needs lately and everytime i tell him how i feel, he seems to run futher from me. He plays rugby, cricket and squash, he has kids, and it just seems ...

I found business cards my boyfriend had taken from a couple of women so I confronted him. Was I wrong for the way I went about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - Last week on my way home, I had the car that me and my parents let my boyfriend borrow. I looked down and in the door I saw a couple business cards with phone numbers WRITTEN on them. I picked them up and they were women phone numbers. So, of course ...

Why is it everytime I'm around my boyfriend I feel depressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - my recent boyfriend of 8 months is a great guy but why is it that when im around him, i get depressed. I mean we have our good times but most of the time im irritated. I dont understand it. He doesnt do things that annoy me. I dont know if it has ...

My wife cheated on me and I feel the trust will never come back into our relationship... Any advice here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (M) - My wife had an affair 2 years ago. She lied that she was going to her sister's house, but went to the hotel with someone else several times. We have since tried to reconcile, and are doing marriage counseling trying to save what's left of our ...

I know he loves me but I have lost my trust in him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - Hi there, I've been with my current partner for almost 6 months. He has been showing his love and care, but somehow I lost my ability to trust him. I was hurt by my ex bf who cheated on me, but he claimed that because I had always doubt him, and...

Am I sacrificing far too much for him, without him even noticing or caring? Any Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - I'm really in love with my boyfriend (Ex-boyfriend?) but we argue all the time. Right now, we've broken up, but when this happens before, we get back together within 48 hours. The problem is that he doesn't give me the choice. I mean, I chose to...

We got engaged and now I am lucky if we have sex at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - I got engaged to my fiance 6 weeks ago. We used to have sex fairly regularly, 3 - 4 times a week, but now I'm lucky if I get to have any at all. Lately he's been spending more and more time at the local fast food joints, and every time I try and ...

We are not having sex because of his dirty underwear, how do I resolve this??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - You may remember when I asked the following question here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husbands-unwashed-dirty-underwear.html Well, I've tried talking to him about the issue, but he keeps on insisting "Don't wash my undies, if they'...

My friend has seen my bf going into a male strip club!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - A friend told me she'd seen my boyfriend go to a male strip club 4 times over the last fortnight. I asked her if she was lying, but she said she was working a late-night shift (she's an airport taxi driver) and had seen him. She said she couldn't...

Shes always accusing me and saying Im lying, I want to safe this marriage, but how ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (M) - My wife and I met about two years ago. After a few months, something told me "she's the one," and so I asked her to marry me. I am in the military, and I volunteered to be deployed a week after we were engaged. We got married and I deployed. The ...

I cant be with him if he smokes!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - My marriage of 10 years broke up due to my ex husband's homosexual affair - his cruelty and utter disregard for myself and our children also caused me to have a breakdown which involved self harm and developing an eating disorder. Oddly though, ...

My cousins sister is pulling me into something!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 613 days ago

7 March 2007 (M) - I have had a very intimate relationship with my cousins sister who is now married. We never crossed the limits though i believe we had some form of bonding. We moved on with our lives but recently when i called her to talk about my engagement, she ...

I really dont remember when he got the test done, is he hiding something!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - my b/f hates all doctors and never goes for anything..he has to get some tests done for work so he needs blood work done and he said the last time it was done was 9 months ago..the thing is..i really don't remember that mentioned or anything 9 ...

Only been together 4 months and I really dont feel special to him anymore!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 636 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - i need some advice. my boyfriend and i have only been together for 4 months. after the first week it started going down hill. before he asked me out he would send me thousands of text messages everyday just telling me he is thinking about me.. and ...

How do I get my man to get a higher libido!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

7 March 2007 (F) - My boyfriend seems to have an usually low libido. When we do have sex it is always passionate, but we have it very infrequent, sometimes only once a month. When I ask him he'll say he doesn't want it to loose it's meaning or that he doesn't want ...

My bf never shows me respect and I always feel like I am alone. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

7 March 2007 (M) - My BF and I have been together for 4.6 years. We have been through alot. My problem is he never shows me respect and I always feel like I am a lone. He says I am not social enough for him because I don't do bars. He has cheated on me because I don't ...

Today i have found out that my childhood sweetheart for 17 years has been having an affair for 4 months with my brother in law!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

7 March 2007 (M) - hi, today i have found out that my childhood sweetheart for 17 years has been having an affair for 4 months with my brother in law, me and my sister had our suspicions but never confered with each other until today, they have been texting and ...