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I found business cards my boyfriend had taken from a couple of women so I confronted him. Was I wrong for the way I went about this?

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Question - (7 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2007)
A female United States, anonymous writes:

Last week on my way home, I had the car that me and my parents let my boyfriend borrow. I looked down and in the door I saw a couple business cards with phone numbers WRITTEN on them. I picked them up and they were women phone numbers. So, of course I wasn't too happy about this. I took them in the house when I got home and asked him about them. He said that people just gave those to him for the people that the phone numbers were for and that he was going to give those to his friend. So I asked him to refuse any phone numbers that he might get just because he should take me into consideration and just tell them no thanks, he's in a relationship. Was I wrong for getting mad about this? Should I have gone about it a different way?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007):

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The cards were NOT business cards from the women, their numbers were just WRITTEN on them.

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A female reader, Bella55 South Africa +, writes (7 March 2007):

i would have gotten a bit upset myself. in a relationship there are comprimises that need to be met. i dont think this should be a huge deal for him. he should respect your wishes.

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