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writes:My longtime boyfriend of eight years has given clothing of mine to someone who I know is a hooker, drug user and possibly involved with my boyfriend. I feel totally betrayed and am emotionaly angry and hurt. My boyfriend thinks I'm crazy. Help?
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 I think its your boyfriend that's crazy. It happens so often, men who screw hookers start thinking they can save them and the hooker will live happily ever after with them. Most hookers do it cos they want to do it, its an easy way out for them; they dont want to be saved! It seems to me your dumbass, I mean boyfriend, is most likely banging the hooker. And right now, he's just using you to live off till he finds himself able to move on. Dont give him a free ride, get rid of him now! When he realises that he's got nowhere to go, he'll be begging you to take him back. Thats when you can slam the door in his face and be done with his worthless, cheating ways, plus make yourself feel better! Hope you get your life back on track
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): this is a ps to my question. ...he has done drugs with this person. He quit his job three weeks ago under mysterious circumstances and has been on the couch ever since. I know he has another woman, friend from high school, who he hasn't seen in what...18 years...and wants to go out of state to visit...I wonder if everything is just getting to coincidental pointing towards the end of the relationship? I'm not good at this and am trying to find strength to deal with the hurt of it all...I think I have put all my eggs in a basket with a hole.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): He shouldn't have given your clothes to someone without permission. Also finish with your boyfriend as he's given up your clothes to someone and is maybe having an affair with a hooker and drug taker.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 March 2007):
 He had no business giving any of your stuff to anybody without your permission. Tell him to keep his hands off your stuff. If he's messing around with this woman behind your back, show him the door.
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reader, wickedrachel +, writes (7 March 2007):
 hi hun your not crazy at all. why in the first place would he think of giving her your clothes, is there not another way to help this women. he seems not to take your feelings into consideration which after 8years is pretty pathetic. Ask him who he loves, you as an 8year relationship should be of help for him to answer, dont let this ruin your relationship, tell him straight whats what. if he is involved kick him out, but if not, there is plenty of places she can get help, you should be his number one, no one else.hope you work things outtake carerachel
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