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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a two year old little girl. I think I love him but I don't care about our relationship anymore. For years I've begged for attention and ask him to respect how I feel about things and although he says hes sorry he never changes. He won't even shower regularly for me. I've never even gotten a card or a thank you for valentines day. When I say how I feel he really ignores me. I used to cry all the time but now, it's like a part of me is gone and I am just submissive. I think I need change but I don't know, am I just selfish. I want more but where does that leave him? What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 You should leave this man or kick him out. He is dragging you down. Why waste yourself on him. Hes not going to change. He doesnt appreciate what he has in front of him. Crying doesnt help as you have come to realise he porbably doesnt even notice your upset half the time. Give him the boot girl and get on with your life.
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reader, nicola79  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 You are still so young and you cant spend the rest of your life in a relationship that just isnt working. Even your child will know that mummy isnt happy,which will make him unhappy. Tell your boyfriend that you cant carry on like this anymore and maybe ask him to move out for a while or you move.
Please dont stay for the wrong reasons,you only live once so make sure you are happy in your life and make sure your child is happy. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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