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writes: i am 16 years of age and have lost weight really quick and with this i have to bones on the upper back both left and right showing along with my spinal bone. i would like to know do girls hate boys with bones that show and that are kinda skinny and if so how can i get rid of the bones, i try to eat but everytime i eat i have to vomit and have been like this for over a year.please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): Well, it sounds like you shouldn't be thinking of girls right now. Personally, as a girl of sixteen, I prefer guys that are not skin a bones. Healthy is always the best option. I agree that it sounds like bulimia. You should ask your doctor, because there is no other way to gain weight correctly unless you eat. So, you have to eat to gain weight. If you gain weight back to normal, then you should start worrying about girls. By this time, they will like you fine :)T.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): Certainly girls don't hate guys that are slim or skinny as everyone has different opinions of what they find attractive, however by the sounds of it you have passed the stage where skinny just becomes unhealthy. You say you have to throw up every time you eat, this sounds like you have a bad eating disorder. Bullemia and anorexia can affect guys too and you don't have to be ashamed, but speak to a parent or doctor and they will help you get the advice and treatment you need to stop this becoming a very serious problem in your life. C.
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