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What to do about the mixed signals

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Question - (28 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *rincessSmithee writes:

I like a guy from my bus stop, he didnt used to notice me, but i realised he was on my facebook since he went to my old school in the year above .. and weve been speaking quite alot.

He does seem intrested and i cant be bothered to write out cute things hes said but he told me in pretty and he likes my hair, and hes said things like 'snuggly movie nights are the best' after we was speaking about watching films. and flirts.

also he said ''hopefully il see you sooon xxxxx' and he was at the bus stop the next day and we rode the bus together and chatted.

and the next night in town we walked past each other and went to stop but we couldnt because we was with friends .. and when we got home he said 'dam i wish i stopped'

Also its very rare that i see him at the bus stop because we go to different colleges so i cant see him to get him to like me and get to know him more :(

On the other hand, i feel like he isnt intrested at times , for example i gave him my number on facebook and he didnt give me his, i had to ask after. i know that makes it seem like he doesnt like me but why he so sweet to me (and hes not a player honestly, i can remember him from my old school hes a proper nice lad).

and sometimes he doesnt speak to me that much or takes ages to reply, also normally i have to speak first.

its feels like im making all the effort, and i try to show him i like him but i just feel like im stalking him. i dont want to not speak to him but if i dont , he wont will he?

what should i do, not speak to him?

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A female reader, PrincessSmithee Ireland +, writes (12 February 2009):

PrincessSmithee is verified as being by the original poster of the question

PrincessSmithee agony auntThanks for answering, things are going ok .. up to now.

Im texting him tommoro to see if he wants to hang out.

So its either gonna end ith :) smiles. or just disspointment and stuf :(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

i think you should, make sure he knows you like him once or twice make it clear to him and then after that just have a laugh and txt him or talk to him a resonable amount a day and the friendship will grow and then he will realise he likes you too, and if he talks about girls make a hint of jelousy but not much so he know you can be botherd about him and then you will be reasuring him you like him and from there it will just get better :) xx fr, Scotland x

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