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She thinks this is funny. How can I get her to understand that I don't like that she when we make love she lets off wind? Why does this happen?

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Question - (31 December 2014) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2014)
A male Germany age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have what I call a severe prob;em with my partner in that when we make love she lets off wind and never does do anything to stop it and when I said something about it she thought it was funny and laughed at me and wonder if I should end it with her and think that I need to either dump her or find a way of getting her to stop it while we are in bed.

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (31 December 2014):

What is she supposed to "do" to stop it? How do you propose she accomplish that? You act like she's deliberately doing it to gross you out, highly doubt that. She's probably inwardly mortified and trying to laugh it off.

She may have a medical condition.

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A female reader, jls022 United Kingdom + , writes (31 December 2014):

I think there is a very high chance that this is coming from her vagina, but either way I think she is laughing it off because she's mortified and is trying to make light of it. Have you spoken to her (gently) about this outside of the bedroom? I really think it's unlikely that she is doing it deliberately, particularly if it's a queef in which case she won't be able to do anything to hold it in anyway.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2014):

Really? It never happened to me. she does it during sex? Or just when you are in bed?

Wow, that's something.... I can imagine how unpleasant it is for you. Be serious when you talk to her and tell her it's a real turn off for you. Yes everyone fart, but not during sex. It's also possible to hold it in, you know.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (31 December 2014):

Honeypie agony auntBuy her some beano. It might help prevent SOME of the gas, but like Auntie Bim explained it might not be "GAS" but air from her vagina. And it MIGHT be the position you two use where you actually put enough PRESSURE on her innards for her to fart.

Holding in a fart during sex is not really realistic.

Everyone passes gas, you know? It may not be romantic ( I certainly wouldn't be happy about it, but sometimes those things happen)

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia + , writes (31 December 2014):

Aunty BimBim agony auntIs she farting (from the back side) or queefing (from the front side)?

Queefing is caused by a build up of pressure during sex, and is quite normal. Google it!

Farting during sex is also not unusual, when you think about what happens during sex, with a lot o weight or pressure being put on a woman, if she has gas in her body it has to come out somewhere.

If she is farting big time and doesn't seem to be bothered by your concern and if it is something you can't live with them maybe you need to find a new partner.

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