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My ex is coming over and says he doesn't want sex. What if I do?

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Question - (21 December 2014) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2014)
A male United States age 26-29, *qualad writes:

Dear cupid,

My ex is coming over tomorrow to hag out,he says he wants to catch up and watch TV. He says he doesn't want to have sex but what if I want to? I know I'm not gonna pressure him but I don't want to come on too strong. What do I do?

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (22 December 2014):

What do you do? Be a decent human being and respect your exes wishes. Leave him alone.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (22 December 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntYou pull down his trousers, expost Mr Happy, and say to him, "You know, Hunchy-Bunchy, I was hoping I could "get a little" from you if you stopped over... so HOW ABOUT IT?????"

That should do the trick....

Good luck...

P.S. Please report back, on here, and tell us if you "got a little" from him!!!!!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (21 December 2014):

Honeypie agony auntI agree with Auntie Bim.

If he already told you up front no sex, just.. RESPECT it.

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A female reader, jls022 United Kingdom +, writes (21 December 2014):

I totally agree with Aunty Bim Bim - no means no. If he doesn't want to have sex and you do, then you will need to try to find someone else to have sex with. End of story.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (21 December 2014):

Aunty BimBim agony auntIf he says he doesn't want sex and you ignore that and coerce or pressure him that could be classed as rape.

If you feel you are incapable of controlling your sexual urges you need to advise him to stay away.

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