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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I feel that I suck in bed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - I feel that I suck in bed. The main problem is that I don't last very long during sex, the average is usually under 2 minutes. This also occurs when I masterbate. When I was younger I could last much longer, about 10-15 mins usually, but not now. I ...

Is this okay, in our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years, we've have a great sex life up to the last 2 months, when I would put on the moves and he would brick wall me, we've recently moved in together (in the last month for college) and I've ...

Why are man always so concerned about there performance and not about what porn actually can do to their brains and judgement?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Porn is a big topic in a lot of relationships. For my own opinion, it is quite sad to see so many guys using porn to get satisfaction,despite having willing and loving partners. The argument is often just to have a quick gratification and not to ...

After no sex for 9 months will I bleed like I did the 1st time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I havent had sex in over 9 months reason being I broke up with my boyfriend and havent been ready! But now I have met someone who I want to sleep with and I am just wondering if I will bleed like the first time again? I will feel so ashamed if I ...

Does he just want me for sex, or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - So, I went out with my friends last Saturday and there was this lad there who said to everyone he liked me! He asked me for my number and I said, "ermm I don't know." The next day he messaged me and asked for it again, so I said okay that's fine, ...

Now she wants our relationship to go sexless until marriage. Should I accept this request?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - After leaving a long term relationship, that was based primarily on sexual attraction, I am dating a girl who attracted me more than just physically. We have been dating for about 5 months and have had anywhere from 25-30 sexual encounters. The fir...

We used to have sex 4 times a week now we only do it once a week

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I'm almost 7months pregnant me n my bf hav been togethEr for 4yrs I love him but he has been wrkin out of twn n only comes over the weekends we only have sex once a week we used to have sex about 4 times a week I'm really confused I don't no if its ...

If I give my married lover an ultimatum is it likely that she will leave her impotent husband for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 25 year old male, and have been in love for 1 yr with a married woman aged 26. She has been married for 3 years and never had sex with her husband, because her husband is impotent and even denies he has a problem, and considers not having sex ...

I'm worried about any embarrasing things I might have done

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I am feeling terrible because I ended up having sex with the guy in the apartment next door the other night. I only just moved in and it was the second time we had visited and had a drink. I can't even remember much of it or how it started. I knew I ...

Should I be asking so much about my girl friend's past lovers or should I let it rest? It bothers me so much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Ok. I met my sons mom in 2003,.,we now have a 6 year old son together. back in the begining when we first met we had one of those open conversations about the past.The things she told me didnt bother me at first, then because of the timeline she ...

Should I tell her that her fiance cheated on her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy. Well, we were just friends. We hung out with each a few times. He introduced me to his friends and introduced him to my sister. I thought we were going to begin a relationship. Well, he went home to visit family. A few da...

Should I consider this a one night stand or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - background info..I'm in my late 20's and he is in his early 30's. We both have children. I have been talking to this guy I met on and off now for months. On one occasion, we wound up back at his place, but chose to wait to have sex. We have talked o...

None of my sexy pics look good, how do I get this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is currently living at the other end of the country to me but we keep in touch via text, e-mails and phone calls. He has recently suggested I send him photos of me because he misses seeing me, and I want to keep him happy but I just ...

Can all women squirt?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - So I was a spectator to a discussion at a party the other day (alcohol involved) involving squirting. One guy claimed that the squirting in porn was real. (which I know its not) When someone voiced this contrary opinion, the kid stated that that was ...

Is this normal for an uncircumsized male?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Hey well i'm 21 and it is my first time being with someone uncircumsized. But i admit the skin freaked me out, but got over it. he got hard and when i went to touch his penis he complained it was very sore why is that ? i barely touched his penis....

Should I walk away and hope he finds someone on one of his dating sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My partner and i parted at the beginning of the year, it was i who ended it, as i felt we couldn't carry on anymore as we were. He and i have 2 kids and he now lives with his mum. There were many issues relating to us splitting. Far too many to ...

How do I get off this pedestal she's put me on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - So I’ve been casually seeing this girl as a FWB for about 6 months. She’s been a good friend for about a year and a half. She’s been quite overtly keen on me for over a year and initially I distanced myself from her, but gradually ended up ...

How can I make giving oral more pleasurable for my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - When I recieve oral from my girlfriend for the first time is there anything I can do to make it more pleasurable for her to do? What Position would allow her to enjoy doing it the most? I know I'll enjoy it and she'll prob get even better over...

Is my wife still attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Me and my wife have been married about 2 years now and we have a beautiful baby girl. However recently our sex life seems to have plummeted. Nowadays I can be romantic and seduce her, or I can come close to begging, yet she rarely ever will accept ...

How can he NEVER have an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - so my boyfriend and i have sex very often. the weird thing is i always orgasm and he can't. he can last for hours but yet he still doesn't orgasm. he loves to please me. don't get me wrong, i please him A LOT too. but sometimes its over an hour and ...

Are my personal standards for my performance in the bedroom over the top?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Um I'm 15 years old and a dude and me and my girlfriend who I've been crazy for for well over a year and who I've been with for about a month having been talking a lot about sex lately and we've decided that we both want to loose our virginity to ...

I'm jealous of all the gf's in my bf's past. What's the best way to get over being so jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I, too, am jealous of my bf's exes...and I don't even know why? he is 43, never been married, and has only had a handful of girlfriends. I am 40, and have already been married. We have been together for 3 a little over 3 years, and have a son ...

I never have orgasms when I finger myself

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26 January 2011 (F) - i finger myself and i really like it but i never go it in to a orgiasm is this normal? Plus sometimes i pee mysself after i am done...

Can she be on the pill without her parents help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Hey guys I got some questions about birth controll, spacificly the pill. I am 18, and my girlfriend is 17 and will be 18 in a few months. I just told my parents about having sex and they reacted well. They said it would come some day, and want to ...

Should I have sex with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My ex bf and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I initiated, but he agreed so it was mutual. We want different things in the future and it's for the best. Our relationship was short-term. I don't want him back. I do miss talking to him and miss his friendsh...