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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Should I give in to him or stay sex free and single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My friend says he loves me,he's been loving me for three years,his feelings never changed,but he cooled down somewhat because i never used to take him on. Now im madly in love with (just out of an abusive relationship) but i know its not a ...

I'm not sure if we should make love or wait until we are married, in about 2 years...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Me and my Boyfriend of 4 months have decided we want to spend the rest of our lives together. But we cant get married because of some family issues going on , so we must wait. We both want to make love but i feel pressured. I am a virgin and am ...

After the baby, our sex life has gone from great and often to infrequent! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - In the past 11 months, my boyfriend and I have only had sex 5 times. I had a baby a couple months ago and we have not had sex since a month before she was born. Before that, it had been almost 3 months. I am ok with the fact that we didn't have it ...

Is oral sex ACTUAL sex? Is it still illegal if you are underage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - is it illegal for an eighteen year old to go down on you when your fifteen because its not really sex its just oral you know or does oral sex count as real sex?...

Her attitute toward sex is really frustrating

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - I'm getting discouraged and feeling really scared for our relationship. Ever since we started having sex my girlfriend has resisted me. I can't do anything to her without seemingly forcing her. It annoys me and make me feel like she doesn't want me ...

I'm afraid he'll see me differently now that he knows about my past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Im 17, and ive had sex with 6 different people. i recently met a guy who, for the firt time, respects girls who respect thereself / dont throw away their dignity. i do respect myself, and was young when these experiences took place - but i wont get ...

Why do parents disapprove of their children masturbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Why do parents dislike that their kids masturbate ? Is it a bad thing ?...

How do I stop him from talking about sex so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend loves me but he want to have sex before marriage but i dont want sex before marriage .i love him too but because of this i am afraid of him .he get excited whenever he talk or see me .he loses his control and has keen desire for ...

Is anyone curious about asexual people?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2844 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Hello. I was wondering if there are any asexual people on this board. I am one myself, but I would be curious to change thoughts with other like minded people or with people who are curious about asexuality. Often I read about some people havi...

I am getting divorced and want to marry my friend, but so many things are getting in the way! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I was married for 6 years to a jerk and I am in the process of getting divorced. I was having some sex problems with my husband since we got married. he wanted sex all the time and I can't. he was sexually abusing me. I am indian so I didn't think ...

Should I get a clitoral hood piercing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My fiancee wants me to get a clitoral hood piercing. I work in OB/GYN, and I fear all the horrible things that could go wrong (infection, ruining my sex life etc..) Any experience from anyone out there? Is it really that big of a turn on or sexual p...

To do a threesome or not, and how do I handle knowing I'm not satisfying a desire for him if I don't?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My fiancee, has this fantasy. He had this kind of play with his "x" wife. (Hinze "X") she later had an affair which hurt him emotionally. My reaction to that was "Why, because she didn't involve you??" After 4 years and him knowing my thoughts about ...

Is it still an orgasm if it doesn't feel like one

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I was masturbating the other day and it was vaginally and I "squirted" (sorry, I don't know the real name for it). I thought it was weird, so I did research and it said that some women do that when they orgasm, but it didn't feel like an orgasm, or ...

Sexual relationship with my 2nd cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - I've been in a sexual relationship with my second cousin. Is this wrong? We are in love. Its not something we sought out. It just happened....

How he could beg for me to take him back and yet sleep with four other women meanwhile???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend were dating for three years we have children. he lost his job and started hanging out with friends all the time and he pushed me away from him. when i finally got tiered of it. i asked him to leave. he begged me to let him stay ...

I'm pregnant but my BF of 9 years has left to live with his new GF. I feel so vulnerable. What can I do to protect my babies and me from being homeless?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am 5 months pregnant and have two toddler daughters. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and we just bought a house. This is the first year he has made a lot of money since he opened his own business. He recently left the home stat...

Should I pick the man that only physically pleases me (my bf) or pick the one that emotionally satisfies me but not physically (my ex)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - my situation is so complicated. Idk what to do. I recently moved in with my bf. Things went really fast. we only knew each other a few months before moving in together. things were great for the first month or so but lately he has been working Alot ...

After 1st time sex now I only get one word replies from him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Well, here is my predicament. I'm 16 and have finnished school and am in my first year of college, when I went back home to Ireland and went to the annual fancy new years party. As i only go back to Ireland and mix with "the circle" once a year it ...

I just have to be quiet till he wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am extremely frustrated with my boyfriend. Our sex life is rapidly diminishing. I'm so sad and I came to this site because I have no one to talk with about it. He doesn't want to talk about our sex life because it turns him off. I try to come on ...

My wife want's a threesome with a younger woman as her birthday present. Seeking pointers to achieve this aim please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Hello Dear Cupid, Good afternoon. So glad to have located your website because I need some help/advice from some of your other members. I am writing and submitting this post, mainly on behalf of my wife. I am married to an exceptionally wonderf...

He doesn't seem to understand that my life isn't devoted to his penis!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I've been with a new guy for three months now, and he's absolutely drop dead gorgeous. But there's one problem - he's obsessed with sex. He wants it every day and more than once - the third time we had sex he wanted to do it six times. It's getting ...