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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I lied and told her I'd had sex with 4 girls but I'm a virgin. I can't change my story now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I am, what most people would call, the stereotypical nerd. I have never been a ladies' guy, and am mostly introverted. However, few years back when I was a sophomore in college, an "out-of-my-league" girl in my Organic Chemistry class became really ...

I think she says this just to make me feel good

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - She says she's sexually intimidated by me, yet she's had quite a few sexual partners she's had 6 before me, she's in her mid 20's and has had some pretty wild sex from what she's told me, so how can she be intimidated by me, when we've been going at ...

How come being a devoted girlfriend is not enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Trying to make the decision either to ignore statements or end it w boyfriend. Been together 8 years. Tired of his comments that he would like to see me w another man or women. I understand more of him wanting to see me w another women, most men...

I'm scared he likes her more than me. He's dumped me and hurt me before. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He then asked for me back, telling me all he could think about was me and that he just wanted to be with me. He and I then went to hang out, and he wanted me to have sex with him. I kept telling him ...

Premature ejaculation issues, how can I convince my boyfriend to see a professional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have had a lot of problems, sexualy speaking, over the last year. It started when I was pregnant although we assumed once I'd had the baby we'd be able to go back to normal eventually. We've had a lot of seperate issues. ...

In a LDR and I don't like how I'm getting sexual relief and don't want to tell him either. But I do want to stop. But how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is abroad..and would remain so for another year. We have made out 3-4 times in person. And now we maintain touch through video chats, emails, sms etc. We continue our physical bonding also by doing it together either on voice or cam. ...

My husband's GF is harrassing me. My husband's screaming at me. We are in debt. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Help, i'm 29 and was happily married for five years with three children when my husband told me he had an affair, the reason he told me was she was blackmailing him. I was wrong she is pestering me by phone, text, E-mail, facebook, in person. i have ...

Want a threesome... need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Me and my man have been together for 7 years. He's been wanting to have a threesome years ago and now me and him want a threesome. I've been very curious about being with a female and I also want to have some crazy, fun, exciting sex. I asked my man ...

I'm female and get turned on by lesbian porn???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - im not a lesbian or bi. i dont find women sexually or mentally attractive at all. im completely 100% straight. but i get turned on and have orgasms to lesbian porn. what does that mean? please help !!...

Why do I always have to be the one to initiate sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Why do I always have to be the one to initiate sex with my girlfriend. And 99% of the time she comes up with some type of excuse not to have sex with me. This has been going on for the last year and a half and I am getting sick and tierd of ...

Is there such a thing as too big?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

2 January 2011 (?) - i've only ever had sex three times and im wondering about my penis size. The first girl i had sex with actually giggled when she saw it but she told me not to worry because her ex boyfriends was huge. The second girl was shocked. She couldnt believe ...

Does this count as sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - so first off my boyfriend and i have never had sex. okay two nights ago my boyfriend and i were messing around on the couch (like he was rubbing himself on me but not going in) and he kind of slipped and went in maybe an inch or so but n...

Help! I want to forget the bad love and shift to the good love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I met her (A) last year at a christmas party and fell in love with her immediately. So beautiful. So funny. And damaged. I love those damaged girls. I even had a girlfriend at the time who I wasnt crazy about romantically but had a great ...

I want our first time to be without a condom!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I of a year have made a decision to have sex. We plan on doing it really soon as in a few days, and I want to make it the best experience for her. I've heard that she could get pregnant from my precum which is a problem that I ...

Is it possible to induce lactation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I am a 59 year old woman who is in a serious relationship and both my partner and I want me to lactate,is that possible and how would we start the procedure please....

My wife doesn't want sex and I don't want an affair

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My wife has not wanted sex for over 2 years. Should i consider a prostitute. I do not want an affair....

Am I bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi ok I'm not sure how to explain it but I think I may be bi sexual... I've hooked up with a girl before and enjoyed it but left it at that Id know I'd like to do it again but now Ive started having dreams about sex with girls am I bisexual? If so ...

Is it long enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I have a 6in penis, will i be able to reach the g-spot of my girlfriend. Because I heard that only bigger penis like 6.5in and more could reach the g-spot.I am afraid she would feel dissatisfied... Just getting prepared for our first time ... ...

How can I have safe sex without the use of birth control and condoms?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - how can I have safe sex without the use of birth control? My boyfriend doesn't like to use condoms and I trust him to pull out but sometimes I'm afraid. I would like to be on birth control but I can't be prescribed because I'm on chemotherapy pil...

Did she have sex with me because I was drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - i stayed the night at My friends house where me and my friend was drinkin and had quite a lot to drink and then we went to bed and i was laying there on the floor and then his sister came to wher i was layin down at and kissed me! then we started to ...

Should I talk to him about my sex life (or lack of it) and about my views on my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm seeing a guy who I met at the jive club I go to, he broke up with his ex-girlfriend of 6 years about 8 months ago and she's annoyingly self confident. I'm not. I'm a virgin and have little to no experience with guys. I'm concerned that if our ...

I was told by my GF :"Girls don't like it when guys last long, they get sore and it hurts down there". Really???

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Hi, Happy New Year by the way! So, when I have sex with my girlfriend, first I pleasure her for about 7 minutes until she finishes, then we have sex and I last for about 1 minute on a good night. Now, once I kept "doing it" for a while after I wa...

Does the passionate kissing mean he is trying to sleep with me asap and that he's only seeing me for that? Or do guys usually act that way??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hello all! I am 23 years old and I recently started talking more to a college classmate who is 22. We never really talked, but now that we're in holidays we've been frequenting the same parties and people and we have gotten to talk more. I...

I want to have sex with her but its illegal!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I am a 14 year old virgin and my girlfriend is 17 and isn't. I want to have sex with her but it is illegal and I am worried I wont be good enough. what should I do?...

I can't tell him what happened. And I can't face him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Long story short I had sex with my friend last night and he came in me.. It's 9 days after my period so I'm assuming I'm pregnant.. He bought me the morning after pill and I took it asap.. I guess about 18 hours after we had sex.. How do I even look ...

She admitted to faking it! Should I forget about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - hello dear readers so i'm with my gf 1 year and 6 months...so everything is well. But...we were at a party this new year eve, so we drank a little bit as you all know...and we played a game truth all falls, so the questions were asked to my gf, and ...