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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Sex is getting to be a pain in the rear!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Ok I am so confused. I have had a total of 3 long term relationships in my 20 years of dating. 2 of my Xs are still dear friends and each has moved on. I have been in my current relationship with a much younger man for about 6 months now. It has ...

Sex, patience, and finding what fits

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Hello, I am about to write this in the hopes it falls into good hands and open minds. I am a mid 30's male. My sex life started quite young as I learned about sex at around age 7, read the Joy of Sex when I was 9. Read about 50 penthouse forums, ...

Do I stand my ground? She wants an open relationship, but I want none of that

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - This is going to be a bit long, so I apologise. I am 22, and have never been fantastic with girls, and met my first (and current) girlfriend about 9 months ago. I had previously just come out of a failed attempt at a relationship that had left me ...

If he was looking for a one night stand, why did he ask me out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - So I met a guy in a club last week, we really hit it off. He lost his phone while we were out, and so lost his friends and couldn't find them. I let him come back to my flat as I felt he was stranded (something I have never done before), we ended up ...

How do I stop myself from regretting losing my virginity after its done?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - So i've met this guy. it was through a friend of a friend and we met only briefly but i have him as a friend on facebook. So we began talking and the conversation quickly became sexual. We swapped numbers and have continued this to and fro-ing of ...

He never has been interested in sex with me, but he cheated on me and had a week of mad sex with his ex!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - hi my boyfriend of 20 months has never realy had much interest in sex with me or anyone else. so he says ,he said pasionate kissing is only for kids,although he is very cuddly and always pecks me thats it, i found out 6 months ago he had a week of ...

How to stop the vicious cycle of a sexless marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I've read article after article of women who have husbands that are no longer sexually interested in them. I am in the same boat. The details of my situation can be spared because they will only make us sad. I just want to know what happens next? ...

Our sex life isn't what it should be!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - im 25 and my bf is 39 so far we have a good relantionship but im concern about our sex life hes sex drive isnt where i would like it to be i wanted to know do men at that age not geet in the mood to have sex as much...and how can i get hem to want ...

My GF has had more sexual encounters than me...and it makes me feel like Iv missed out on stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Basically im in university and have fallen in love with a beautiful girl. However she was only the second girl I ever slept with. I was her 5th. Now i do not have a problem with her sleeping with more than me as it opened my mind to girls are jus...

What makes a man emotionally attached to a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - For the first time ever, I swallowed! Will this make a man appreciate you more? Not that I did it for that reason, but just wondering since I heard that if a female squirts she can become so attached to him. I did this because 1) I like givin my bf ...

Boyfriend prefers cyber sex to me, Emotionally detatched

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - So I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I am 22, he is 29 and this is his first real relationship, I am basically his first real love. When we first got together I was going through some medical issues and couldn't have sex for the ...

Guys!! Help! My guy prefers porn and his xbox to real sex... what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Ok, so my b/f and I have not had sex for a month now. I'm 5.5 months pregnant- but I'm not overweight. I've gained 10lbs and am at 130. The first trimester sex wasn't really something that I felt good about, being nauseous, etc., but now my hormones ...

How can I overcome this lack of balance between love and sex in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years now, we are both 20 years old. As far as our relationship goes, things could not be better! We both genuinely love each other with our whole hearts. She frequently talks about how she wants to get ...

Kissing and Hugging vs. Sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Here's a dilemma, guys are suppose to be all about sex but the weird thing is, I love kissing, hugging, making out as much now that I am 40 as I did as a teenager, it never abated. Aren't guys suppose to be sexually driven? However, I wou...

Does he like me or was I just used ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Hi, so this is a bit of background: ive known this guy for about a year now hes a bit shy and has been known to be a player. we have mutual friends however dont see each other that often anymore. Me and him flirt when we see each other and have sle...

Is waiting worth it to a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I am also the authority of an other article '22 Year Old Virgin: Weak or Responsible'and this will be my second article on the subject matter. I am struggling with the issue of virginity. Because I am a very disciplined individual as my previous ...

He talked to me about having sex with other girls but I thought it was just a joke...it wasn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 4 months and I have been spending the night almost every night for about 3.5... He has always been hesitant to call himself my boyfriend, but I let it go because he was always so nice to me. He took care of me when ...

Should I confront this? A man's patience can only last so long. I feel unwanted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Hi I am 47 years old, in reasonable good shape, as is my partener of 46, whom I adore. But the problem is this she been rejecting my advances, for nearly a year now. But she does still seem to enjoy making love, about 3 times a month. She says...

How do I handle my feelings over my friend's actions? She is having a very public affair with a married man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - A work friend is having an affair. She is 45 he is 52. When she first started seeing him she quietly told me he was married that he was just a bit of fun but asked me to keep it Hush Hush. Over the past few months she has openly discussed what the...

How can a man reject his baby daughter for his new GF? Is this just a phase? He says our baby will ruin his new relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - how can a man reject his child for another women? We were together over 6 years and i fell pregant. Soon as he heard, he did a runner. Three months later he's in a serious relationship with another girl. They are going abroad together. His child ...

Hand job techniques?

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18 January 2011 (F) - Hand job techniques? This will sound really stupid. But i don't have an older sibling to help me with this. Any ideas on hand job techniques?? ...