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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He didnt say much after we fooled around, did I do something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Okay, I've been dating him for about 7 months. And we've just fooled around. Make-out, cuddle. Little stuff. And I finally got the guts to rub his penis. Over his underwear of course. But he was left breathless, and didn't say much afterwar...

Do I just keep moving forward and hope he will in time trust me with his heart again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a man for a few weeks. He is a great guy and we have been falling for each other. The other night we had sex for the first time. It was amazing and I felt safe and close to him. He had some issues keeping his erection and being ...

How can I read his moves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and me have been dating for about 7 months. And we haven't gone very far. Mostly because i'm scared. And i'm not reading any signals he's sending me. And i'm afraid our relationship is growing weaker. Can you guys help me know the sign...

Worried about my foreskin......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - hi, im not sure what to do and i have been more concerned over time. i am 17 and have noticed that my foreskin is still attached to the end of my penis but only in one little line so it doesn't (move about) like its supposed to. i think is teh best ...

How long should you wait before sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - How long should you wait before you are intimate with someone? I'm 24 and have only slept with one guy in Whig I was in a 6 year relationship with and I am back on the dating scene! I'm wondering how long should you wait I'm not really e permiscious ...

Is make up sex healthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Is make up sex healthy? I got into a argument with my girlfriend 2 weeks, ago. Up until earlier on today, she wouldn't speak to me unless I asked her a question like if anyone called or if she needed help with anything. We then made up because I ...

I feel like our whole relationship is becoming purely physical, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been daing for 1 year and a few months now. And i feel like our whole relationship is becoming about being physical! Should i be worried.. or just happy he is into me? he is a sweet guy and i dont want to be mean! ...

I fell limp onto the bed and start to gag during anal sex!! Is this normal??!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So last night I was fooling around with a guy and we were doing it doggy style and suddenly (i'm not sure if it was on purpose or an accident) he slipped into my butt. I've never had any sort of anal penetration before, and it surprised me to the ...

I'm worried I wont make her happy when we do eventually have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - okay, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while, and I really love her, and we both want to get married, and her being a virgin is really important to me, she says she's a virgin and a lot of me beleives her because she's the most ...

Threesome gone terribly wrong...my husband is in love with her, my life is a mess and I'm pregnant with our 4th child!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I feel like I'm at my wits end. I am so conflicted about what I should do that I am in a constant state of depression where it's almost debilitating. It all started about a year and a half ago. My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we ...

What has gotten into my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Ok, Not sure what has gotten into my wife, have had a strange New Year thus far. Anyhow, leading up to the New Year she is making her resolution list and out of the blue comes up with an idea and leaves the room to write her thought down, me...

Husband expects me to go down at him at all times when he wants it. If I say no he gets agressive. Should a wife treat sexual favours as a part of the job?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So I have been with my husband for almost 7 years, married for about 3 and we have a 3 year old son. Our relationship has never been super wonderful but I’m still here and I am happy some times. My issue right now is sex. As a wife am I suppose...

Does my FWB want more with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - For the past 4 months I have had this fwb..it was never defined as such. I met him online and we started hanging out and we see each other and have sex and hang out between 1-5 times a month. He texts me everyday lately i don't know if he likes me ...

Second time sex hurt even worse that first time sex! What will happen on my third try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - ok so i'm 17 and sex for the first time about 2 months ago. kind of towards the end of november beginning of december and it hurt like hell. Tonight i had sex again with the same guy, it was my 2nd time and it hurt WAYYYYYY worse than my first time. ...

How do I get over her losing her virginity while we were broken up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I've had a relationship with this girl for over a year. We took a break and got back together. I found out when we weren't dating she slept with someone and she was a virgin when we broke up. I'm hurt and it's been months now and I can't get over it ...

Why is oral sex frowned upon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hi(: Okay this is going to sound really awkward but I just want to know. Why do some people have such a strong opposition towards oral sex? I know this girl who told me (in her exact words by the way) "You're nothing but a slut, you sucked h...

Help! Anxiety and depression are ruining my life and relationship! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hello! Thank you for taking the time to read the following. I know it's long, but I've come across posts by others where they've been asked for more details, so here goes... In the last, I don't know, month or so, I've been feeling like old a...

I'm afraid he would force me to do something I don't want to if I go do other things with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - theres this guy who really likes me but he only wants to have sex with me like sometimes i want to then other times i feel kind of dirty talking to him because he will talk about all the stuff he wants to do with me. he is three years older then me ...

Is my boyfriend just being disrespecful and a prick?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, So i have been dating this guy for 4 months. At frist he was really sweet. However, lately he has been very sexual. He always asking me to send him dirty pictures, make a sex video, and do naughty things. Also, for x-mas all he wan...

I'm so sexually frustrated that its driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I'm so sexually frustrated that it's driving me crazy. I'm in my mid 20's, never had a girlfriend, and never really dated anyone for that matter. I'm not waiting for marriage, but I would like to it to be with someone I have feelings for. I just ...

Strange sexual experience, is it because of the pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. Sexually active for about 4 months. We were both virgins and very inexperienced so were just experimenting. Things have been good so far. Tonight we were rather cosy in bed watching a ...

Why sex is important in a Relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - You can only hold hands for so long and then its time to get down to business. A lot of women serve as the problem with sex in the marriage. The only thing they focus on is the wedding, the family , and not the husband. Its like big poppa comes last ...

Is he leading me on? Does he just want a friend with benefits? I'm confused

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Ok so I met this guy a couple years ago and we were friends with benefits for a short while. Then in the begining of 09 he moved out of state but we started talking again right before he moved. We really liked each other but lost touch again soon ...

My ex said he doesn't care about me and never will. I'm crying my eyes out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - my ex officially cut me off for the same reason below... what do i do now? he told me he doesn't care about me and he never will... And if i have a miscarriage he really wouldn't care.. i'm crying my eyes out because i didn't believe that this is ...

My older brother said I can, but should I go for it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 14 year old male and am still a virgin. My older brother is 17 and has been sleeping with a couple girls since he was 13 and said I could sleep with them if I wanted. I have never seen her but I know she's hot. Should I go for it even though ...

Not sure if I'm satisfying her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I've only had sex with one girl and that's currently my wife, but she has other partners before me whom she had sexual intercourse with. I'm only curious to know if the whole penis size ordeal actually came from the porn industry or if its really ...

Is this problem age-related?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - when haveing sex with wife i cant cum sometime. i am 54 does this happen with age...

How to convince wife that she is not a sex toy for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Well i am having problem with my wife regarding our views toward sex and I need advice. We are from Asia and have been in the States for 10 years. My wife was brought up with the view that sex is a bad thing. She would feel that she is "used" a...

Should I tell him about my troubled sexual past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - About 6 years ago I was abused sexually by a family friend but never told anyone as he has a wife who is very dependant on him. Then when I was 16 I got in a very involved relationship with a boy who I now know is very depressed, long story short he ...

How do people have one-night stands or loveless sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Hi, OK, this is gonna sound naive, but it is sincere. I am a heterosexual male in my late 30s and I do not understand one-night stands, or having sex with a stranger (like a prostitute) or someone you don't love. I mean, I understand the sex...