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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why will he not go down on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend wont go down on me, his never done it before, and says it doesn't appeal to him. so I've stopped giving him oral sex to try and make him but he still won't. what else can I do? ...

She says I'm pushing her further away and making her hate me. what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - hey there peeps, im having a really hard time right now in my relationship or the allusion of what used to be. She found some conversations i had with an ex and flipped out on me...i can completly understand that. I have never cheated in my entire ...

My wife told me how much she liked having sex with her ex!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Before my wife and I were together, she had a boyfriend that she lost her virginity to (at 16). She really liked him. She had a relationship with him that included regular sex, then after breaking up got back together after a couple of months ...

My girlfriend wants me to leave bruises during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - My Girlfriend wants me to leave bruises during sex? I am not sure what to take of this we have been dating over a year now. She wants me to hit her.. I dont know what to do is it normal?...

My boyfriend is disinterested in sex, maybe porn is the root of the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex as often as we used to. We used to have sex maybe 3-4 times a week. Now... sometimes it's about twice a month. He always says that he just doesn't feel like it or the "chase" isn't there anymore because I'm ...

My partner wants to watch me have sex with another man. I'd rather have sex with me ex and tape it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I am currently in an open relationship and my partner said he wants me have sex with another man while he watches,i am very doubtful about doing this as it may end the good thing we both share.i want to suggest that he and i watch a homemade movie ...

Should I tell my wife I cheated on her with over 30 prostitutes?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I'm 35, my wife 36, we have 2 kids, married for 7 years. Before our kids born we have really great relationship and have sex every day. Sine she got pregnant the first kid her interest for sex declined sharply. No matter what I tried the most we can ...

Am I gay, bi, straight, or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. I need your opinions. A year ago i started *asturbating on gay porn, I wasnt really attracted to guys, I just wanted to see it. And me, stupid idiot, kept doing it, cos I thought "Ah So what, I can stop anytime". I also did it on some ...

It hurts when he enters me, why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - This is quite long because i wanted to explain myself properly, please take time to read and help me :) Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year now and i was sexually active before i met him. It never used to hurt when we had sex ...

I feel like I was played in the worst possible way!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hey aunts. Little help will be appreciated. I've been going through a rough patch lately. So there is this guy, used to be my closest friend for a long time then, over a year ago his behavior started to change. To cut a long sory short he spent an ...

I don't feel much during sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now and were friends for a few years before entering into the relationship we have. We started having sex a few months ago. ...

Can some women just not have a g-spot orgasm because it will make them pee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - The other night, a guy was stimulating my g-spot and I felt like if it continued, I could probably have an orgasm - however, I started feeling like I was leaking pee, so I stopped it. I was so angry, because I assumed I would never be able to have a ...

I want to be heterosexual but I don't know if I am, advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - So, I'm 15 and sexually confused. I've only kind of liked one girl I've known, and that was this one brilliant/beautiful/charismatic girl that I knew in kindergarten, and I didn't even know her very well. Now I'm in highschool, and I don't think ...

The big 'O'....how hard is it to achieve one?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - How hard is it to Orgasm? I am 17 and my bf's cousin is one of those girls that is just filled with sex stories. She said that she had her first Orgasm at 16 ... (mind you her bf was 24) she says it's easy. But really what are your girls ...

I'm bi. My loving man accepts my needs. But now I'm in love with a woman. Out of my mind with guilt. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hi Aunties I came her for some advice about guilt and love. I'm married to a good man for 22 years. we have 5 children and all but 2 of them are off to college. My husband treats us good. He's a good father and husband. He's always put us before ...

Is it time for me to say enough is enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4846 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - i could use some advice...PLEASE.....HELP...... I am a 30 yr old single mother of three beautiful children.. I fell in love with a man a couple years ago we talked for a whole year before actually getting together and I really thought we were ...

Why am I so sore after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and have a perfectly good sex lifem just recently tho after we finish sex, my vagina becomes very sore it last for a couple of hours and its sore when i go toilet as well. we had a check up last year and...

My boyfriend's insecurity about his looks has shattered our sex life...how do I make him feel better about himself???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - hey so i dunno if im just overreacting but my bf hardly ever wants to have sex. Hes always too tired, not feeling well or in a bad mood cos of work. Now hes on Admin leave and I figure..well work shouldnt be the issue..but it seems we have le...

I like him, but I'm worried about his ex gf. Should I back away or try to go exclusively with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I am seeing this guy I really like. But his ex gf used to be one of my best friends a until a few years ago. They broke up around 2 months ago. She put him through hell. She'd become very paranoid and jealous. She once snogged a guy who had eyes for ...

Do I have to tell this guy I'm seeing about my past sexual experience?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Do i have to tell this guy im seeing about my past sexual relationships and experiences or does it not matter?... things have been going really well, and weve been getting to know each other, i just wondered if it was neccessary to tell him? He ...