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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is a condom enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Hi I'm a Uni student who is a virgin and I've been dating this guy for a few months, and I really want to have sex with him but I'm scared to death of getting pregnant. If he uses a condom, do I really have that much to worry about?......

Hearing about my boyfriends sexual past turns me on...is this common?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We have a wonderful sex life. We have occasionally watched porn together and I noticed that watching him watch porn turned me on more than actually watching it myself. Over about a six ...

He tells me that he doesn't know what to do because he wants his kids and also wants me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Well here's my crazy story......when I met my husband we had a great relationship he was totally honest with me or atleast I thought he was being honest with me he told ne he had a son and that him and his sons mother had a mutual understanding that ...

Older boyfriend is not interested in sex...what could be the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is older than me by 15 years. when we first got together he took me places,ate out,he would do anything for me. now everything i do annoys him, he gets mad when i am sick,he won't touch me,kiss me,no sex. i can't bring the subject up ...

I bled when my boyfriend was fingering me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Recently my boyfriend and I were in the room and started to have oral sex, my boyfriend started to finger me inside my vagina it was hard and exciting, when I went to the bathroom to urinate I noticed there was blood when I cleaned the vagina w...

Do I have ED? I'm only 17!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Recently i haven't been able to get erections as big as i used to! i used to be able to get big withought trying. I still get hard enough to masturbate but im seriously freaking out. Do i have ED? I'm only 17! My girlfriend noticed a difference ...

Am I just a friend with benefits or are we moving slowly towards a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I started hanging out with a guy I know. I love spending time with him. I would love very much to be in a relationship with him. I thought that was the way he was headed too. After hanging out for a while we slept together. We text every day (or at ...

I'm frustrated that my boyfriend is watching porn all the time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is always watching porno and more often murstabating. we dont have sex alot and i do like sex i hate what he is doing because he is always hiding and i alwazs know when hes doing it one time i asked him if am not enough for him and a...

My girlfriend has an irrational fear of pregnancy, even though we never had sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has an irrational fear of pregnancy I'm afraid. It's not a matter of sex even though, she gets super freaked out about touching my penis in case it somehow got her pregnant. She is even acts worried in the hot tub about over exciting ...

The Mom of my married boyfriend has threatened to Dis-Inherit him if he doesn't go back to his wife. What can we do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is married..i know but he left his wife and stayed with his mother and our relationship bloomed. he recently found out that his mother has had him followed, knows all about me..she told him to go back home to raise his 2 girls..(mind ...

I hate being rejected. She's not as interested as before. Our LDR is deteriorating. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Hello, I've been dating my highschool sweetheart for the past going on three years of college. She is about an hour away at a different college, however hopefully transferring here. Im truly in love with this girl and I would like to spend the rest...

Using lubricant for sex makes me feel useless! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - When me and my boyfriend have sex i feel in the moment but then i just like become unwet. it is horrible and now i feel like he is getting mad at me for it even though i cant control it. im kinda anti lube.. no clue why it just makes me feel weird. ...

I'm scared I might have hurt her when I chickened out of going further. I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so i'm 15 and my girlfriend and I are talking about sex. But i'm scared to because i might hurt her. we've reached really close to having sex, but i chickened out. I told her this reason and she keeps saying it'll be ok... i don't know what to ...

I'm not ready yet. But I seek your guidance on how to initiate sex for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Okay.. Please don't be mean with answers to this. I'm not planning to make an instant decision here. To start off, I'm 19. I am a virgin, by choice. I've had a lot of chances of "Losing it", but I didn't want to until I was ready, and with someone ...

He's trying to change me on so many levels. When will these changes be 'enough' for him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Hi, i really need some advice!! Iv been with my boyfriend for almost a year. Im 22, he's nearly 30 and he's a christian. Iv never felt like this about anyone before and i really really love him. When we first met everything was great! He was just as ...

How far should a 14 year old go sexually?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! I have been wanting an answer to this question for a while, so your opinion would mean a lot to me. :) I am 14 years old and have been dating boy for a year and a half now. He was very innocent at first which was very unexpected....

How do you find people for a threesome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

12 January 2011 (?) - I was just wondering how you go about asking someone to join you for a threesome? I want to try a threesome so bad but can't find anyone that wants to.I am married and I want to do something different in my marriage.It's a choice that I am choosing ...

Do women enjoy it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Do women enjoy anal? I expect that it differs from person to person, but on average? Or is it only something a girl would let a guy do as something special for him? ...

Help with oral and vaginal sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - [Mod note: 2 questions by the same poster combined.] Q. Okay, me and my boyfriend have been dating a year. I'm in love with him he's the most amazing person I've ever meet and he has taking everything slow and not rushed me into anything it was 7 mo...

I've tagged along while she shops for lingerie, so how do I get her in the sack?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - okay so I am really good friends with this girl. Like, I've known her since grade 5 and I am in grade 12 now. We talk about anything, including A LOT of sexual stuff. She has even taken me lingerie shopping. My question is, how can I get her to...

How can I lower my sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - How can I stop thinking about sex? I have a sweet girlfriend. However, I keep thinking about sex whether or not she is around. I feel guilty to have such dirty thoughts every time I am around her. This desire always trigger without fail when we show ...

My boyfriend wants to have cyber sex, but I'm concerned that if he records the session, it will leak out!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship and he wants me to have cyber-sex with him. Its been a year into our relationship and I'm not sure of the whole thing. What if he records the session just for his sake and it gets leaked by ...