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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Birth Control - Spermice & Condoms

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Is there anyone here who uses spermicidal gel and condoms? I cannot use birth control pills because of a medical condition, so what I was wondering if anyone has personal experience with this or how it works? Would it be uncomfortable or anything? I ...

Does this make him gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - My boy friend has a fantasie of me having both male and female sex organs, and he fantasizes' him preforming oral sex with the male organ, and also doing him from behind. Could this mean he is gay or bi and he's to embarrassed to say anything?? ...

My "lover" won't date me because he thinks he's gay?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Okay so i am fairly young and shouldn't really have relationship problems in the first place. But anyways, im only 15, i have a "Lover" i guess you would say that, he is 16, but i dated this guy before, and then we kind of just drifted and then ...

What would be the best position for a virgin to use?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend are exited to have sex but im still a virgin what would be the best sex position for a virgin to use?...

Is this pain normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Any time my boyfriend fingers me I feel pain; I am a virgin. And after the act I get this burning sensation and it lasts for about 3 days. I want to know if this is normal?...

I haven't yet had an orgasm with him, I don't want him to feel badly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - So I have been hanging out with this guy for over four months now. We have had sexual intercourse four times and I have never had an orgasm with him yet. He said something the second time and was like 1. you're nervous cause I just got out of a ...

Am I big enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I'm about 5.5 inches, maybe a little smaller but I was wondering (as i am a virgin) if I'm big enough for vaginal sex with my girlfriend? And what position would be best for my length to get the most in?...

Does my 'friends with benefits' guy have deeper feelings for me than he is letting on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - i have a friend with benefits, problem is i think im in love with him,he was my first love when i was 13 years old and now im 27, we met up for the first time in all these years about 5 months ago and one thing led to another and we have become ...

She has a profile on a website designed for married people to cheat....I'm not sure if I can be with her anymore knowing she could do this

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I have just discovered (or rather the computer repairer told me) that during a period where we broke up, my girlfriend had joined a site that is there for married people to cheat on each other . She`s down as single but seeking attached or married ...

Why do I want this other guy sexually when I'm in love with my fiancé?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm in a mess and I really need some advice. I'm 23 years old and I have been with my fiancee for nearly 5 years, we've just got engaged and we're extremely happy together. I love him more than anything and I couldn't imagine being without ...

I get a bit limp when sex gets energetic......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

28 January 2011 (?) - I am curious about a minor ED problem I seem to be having. When I am having sex, I can stay rock hard indefinitely. But it seems like when I get my heart rate up, like when I'm on top pumping hard, I start to lose my erection. It's like the blood ...

Mismatched sex drives and now she doesn't like it if I turn to porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - My girlfreind only wants sex ounce a week and never during her period but i have a very high sex drive so i want to masterbate infront of her, she used to be ok with it even give a helping hand but now she doesnt like it when i do it and hates it if ...

Will it all be over too quickly when it comes to having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - when i masturbate fantasizing i ejaculate within 5-6 min actually , but i prolong it to somehow 15-20 min by stopping at the point of no return...i masturbate watching porn i got quite a fast erection and then it is just 3-4 strokes away the orgasm, ...

My boyfriend is a selfish lover. Do I give him more chances, or kick him to the wind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I've been widowed for 11 years now and haven't dated at all in all that time. My son is now in University, and my 2 daughters will be heading there in the next year. This past November, I started dating a man that I've known for many years. Afte...

I'm putting off having sex because I can't last long!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Hi there I have not had sex on a regular basis in over 6 years, I have recently started dating a girl, and have been putting off sex because of performance issues, in bed I can only last a few seconds. I am terrified, and embarrassed, what can I do...

How Do I deal with a moody, somewhat selfish, loner, low sex drive bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - so ive written on here before.. i have mixed feelings about my relationship.. maybe its not my bf..maybe its me.. ive had alot of bad luck w/ guys and i feel ive let them walk all over me..so in this relationship, im trying to communicate mo...

I want to give him something good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - What's The Best Way To Please your Boyfriend In Bed ? I Feel Like He Always Pleases me and his birthday is coming up and I want to give him something good and I want to know the positions that will have him wanting more. ...

G-spot stimulation but no orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I recently squirted several times when my husband stimulated my G-Spot. The only thing is, it feels good, but it's not like an orgasm. Can you please tell me how I reach that? ...