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Any tips for things to do/say to my boyfriend who is into BDSM?

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Question - (2 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Please help. My boyfriend is really into BDSM and likes to be dominated which I don't mind but sometimes he asks me to call him names which I've got the hang of now, but he likes to be abused and humiliated too and then my mind goes blank and can't think of what to do. I mean, the lucky part of this is that he's only ever to do this over text so far so he can't see that I'm struggling. Can anyone please give me some suggestions of things to do or say? I don't want to say no when he asks because I like that he enjoys it, and I'd be able to enjoy it more if I knew what to do when he asks me to do it.

Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010):

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Thank you so much satindesire for linking me to that site. It's really helpful. I appreciate it alot x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

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Thank you all so much. Satindesire, he likes to be physically and verbally abused. The only reason that this part bothers me is because I don't want it to be boring or too repetitive for him.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2010):

Buy a sexy pair of boots that you like, buy some stockings and order him to do everything sexual to you that you like. He'll melt away and adore you.

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